How do I contact this girl without being creepy?

[sacjatt693]

I work in an industrial area with a few restaurants nearby in a few different directions. I went to get lunch a couple of weeks ago and I saw this beautiful girl walk in to pick up her food while I was eating. The restaurant was busy and I didn't want to bother her and I left while she was waiting for her food. She happened to walk out as I was about to pull out of the parking lot and I saw her get in her car. I thought I'd never see her again and I left it at that.

Fast forward a couple of weeks (today), I'm sitting at a stop light while returning from lunch in a different direction and she happened to pull up right next to me. I just turned and looked but didn't realize at the time that she was the same girl, until the light turned green and I recognized her car. We drove side by side until I had to make my turn so I pulled behind her to make a left. She also happened to make the same turn. There are only a few businesses past where I work, so just out of curiosity, I followed her to see where she works (yeah I know it's creepy). She pulled into a lot less than a quarter mile from my office. I just made a U-turn and went back to work.

All that I know about this girl is what she drives and where she works. What would be the best way to try to get a hold of her to ask her out to lunch? I thought about leaving a note on her car but I realize that it would be even creepier than following her.

[Anonymous]

If you see her grabbing lunch in the area again, then maybe approach, that’s the least creepy way. Not sure you’ll bump into her again but if you do then there’s your window. However, I will say to expect anything. She may have a boyfriend/husband already, or for all you know she may not even be straight. Different obstacles is my point, so hope for the best but expect the worst.

[Anonymous]

not sure if you saw at the same restaurant again it be ok to try talking to her

you also don't necessary know if she's single which is a big issue here , if she's attractive i'd say its a 50/50 chance either way ,

is there any way you could go into her work for a legitimate reason? or is it some place there'd be no reason to ever go?

[sacjatt693]

She works for a completely different industry, but I could ask about a site tour. Thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

i wouldn't invest too much energy into this until you know she is single and have at least talked to her to determine if there is any interest on her part in getting to know each other

[nestokyo]

I'll be honest you're in a big predicament heretics about the only way you're going going be able to is actually physically trying to talk to her or a note with ur name and number on it, other than that me personally I couldn't think of another way

[sacjatt693]

So are you saying that it's okay to leave a note with my name and number on her car?

[nestokyo]

it would be better that way unless u can come up with a way to meet her at a restaurant or shop again somehow