Has a man ever gone from CRUSH to Creepy?

[Anonymous]

My crush of 2 years at work has become creepy now. He acts weird all a sudden and the vibes are so off. I feel uncomfortable.

I can't tell if he's being controlling or what. I like a guy to be a bit controlling but the way he's doing whatever he IS doing is just making me feel ugly and awkward around him. Maybe he sees me as a potential sex object and he can't know how to connect at a regular human level so he acts weird instead?

[_deeznuts]

I don't know your situation in detail, so I may have taken the situation differently than how you intended it to be, but if you think something is very off, cut him off!! It's not worth the possible things he could do to you in the future.

I had a similar experience with a crush, and he ended up trying to rape me. Please be safe!!

[Asker]

I'm so sorry! Thank you for your advice.

[_deeznuts]

yww <33

[serious]

I don't know why after 2 years he would suddenly become the way you mentioned when he wasn't like that before.

Either the way you look at him now has changed or you did not see his nature or did not see the signs of this from a long time. From the beginning maybe.

[TommyMountainFigure]

After 2 whole years, maybe you're just having a change of heart?

[Anonymous]

A Guy Going from Crush to Creepy in Girls eyes is Probably pretty common to Girls.

What I would like to know is how can a Guy go from Creepy to Crush or is it impossible.