Has any guy ever been able to bounce back from being ghosted?

[Anonymous]

I recently met someone new a few days ago and thought we were vibing pretty well. I met her and asked for her number because I was interested in getting to know her. We texted a decent amount throughout the past few days, and the girl initiated to hang out by my surprise, so I thought that maybe she had some kind of interest in me. I decided to shoot my shot by confirming our hangout plan and saying: "well then, i guess it's a date! it'll be something fun to look forward to". But I think I may have sprung that a little too early...

She ended up ghosting me right after that and didn't respond to it. I honestly don't mind keeping her as a friend even if she doesn't feel anything romantically since she just seems cool as a person. I liked our talks and became interested in her and possibly getting to enter a dating phase with her to know her better if it ever came to that. Because of that, I feel sort of bad for ruining what could have possibly even been a good friendship. Is there any way to try and bounce back from this?

[ButthurtTroll]

As someone who has been kicked off this forum multiple times, let me tell you, it's not easy to bounce back, unless you have a good VPN. But hey, at least I'm not talking about anal sex or tying up bitches before I pound their tight little assholes. So, being ghosted. Yeah, it sucks. And unfortunately, it happens a lot these days. But can a guy bounce back from it? Well, it depends on the situation. If you were just talking to the girl online and she suddenly stopped responding, then yeah, it's definitely possible to bounce back. Just tell her you want to butt fuck her -- if she says no, she's not worth a damn. But wtf do I know? I'm a loser who spends most of his time in his mom's basement -- she ignores the coom jars but she knows I watch a lot of butt sex porn.

[MicroViewer]

Bouncing? I thought your mom was bouncing up and down a horror cock while using a birthie stick?

[NavyOU37]

If she’s not into you, do not be a SIMP and wait for her. F that! Self respect and move on.

[Asker]

Got it! I will leave it where it is and move on

[Anonymous]

Yeah. 6 months later she contacted me. And then I ghosted her.😆

[Avicenna]

Time heals lots of things

[Anonymous]

If it doesn’t last too long, not a problem that situation is kind of different you have

[Asker]

She ghosted me since yesterday so it hasn't been too long. I don't want to further make it awkward though. Hence why I'm wondering if it's even a good idea to message back and explain anything at all like how after talking to her, I found her interesting and wanted to shoot my shot similar to how I explained it on this post.

[Opinion Owner]

Just talk about something else if she really wants to date you, she’ll bring it up

[Asker]

And that it might have been too quick and I didn't mean to scare her or anything like that. By date, I mostly want to just get a feel for who she is, but wanted to just make it clear that I was interested in a possible relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe not bring it up unless she brings it up just take on a friendship maybe one day she’ll change her mind

[Asker]

Okay. I can try. Maybe I'll shoot a message in 2 days and just ask her how the rest of the week went for her. I think this point forward, if she never asks to hang out, or bails on the hangouts it's safe to say I should just let it go completely because not even a good friendship would come out of it.

[Opinion Owner]

Give it your shot

[Asker]

To respond to your comment of not bringing it up. I'm not sure if she will even let me take on a friendship when she knows what my intentions already are since I've made it clear to avoid surprises. I think it's kind of rude in general that she did not at least respond with a no though.

[Opinion Owner]

You’ll find out very soon and give it your best shot

[In_Trance]

Of course

[Asker]

What's an example of how?