Should I stop initiating anything with her?

[Anonymous]

• We used to text daily. Not anymore. Sometimes it takes her a day or 2 to reply. And she generally doesn't apologize for it. I personally respond to her everyday. Not right away, but I never make her wait a day or 2 (and whenever it takes me longer to respond, she double texts me and asks me if I'm alright). BUT, we text on a website that doesn't send push notifications, so maybe she just doesn't check her inbox everyday...
• I used to initiate most conversations. She did, sometimes, but it was mostly me.
• I've asked her out 4 times. She asked me out 3 times (and she recently somewhat invited me to spend some time with her).
• I haven't asked her out nor initiated any text conversations in 8 days. She has then texted me first twice in 3 days (which is a progress).
• She generally texts me late at night

Should I stop asking her out and should I stop initiating any text conversation?

I'm asking this because I am genuinely not sure if she still somewhat appreciates me or if she just likes the attention that I give her? What should I do? I feel like it'd be rude to completely stop texting her first/asking her out?

[Gent207]

I am so confused
How the heck do you ask someone out 4 times and they not give you a yes or no?
Honestly reading the subtext sounds like a real bad case of the blind leading the blind.
How are you two going to have a relationship if neither of you can effectively communicate in a timely manner?

[Asker]

No. She said yes to the 4 times I asked her out. And I said yes to the 3 times she asked me out.

[Gent207]

There is a serious communication problem between you two

[Asker]

Because we almost never talk at the same time? haha

[Gent207]

I would quit on this pursuit

[Emily_925]

I mean if she doesn't get notifications I doubt she wants to spend all her time watchign a screen. She probably is just busy, and u probably should just ask her or talk to her bc if u play games she's just gona think ur not interested and move on

[slatyb]

Have you actually had a date?