Should I stop talking to her?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl I like
I try to talk to her, but she ignores me
She's not in a relationship.

She only replie "thanks" when I compliment her
And that's only if she's in the mood to say it

I can tell she reads my messages because she's active on Facebook

I would leave her alone but she really showed interest at first.
Now she just ignores me
I'd like some type of closure at least...

If you're not interested in me just say it so I can move on

(you're probably thinking I spam her with messages, I don't, it's only like one compliment every 4 or 5 days, she says thanks sometimes but other times she just doesn't really care)

Leave her alone

Keep trying

Other

[yellowmamba024]

I have been in your shoes way too many times. I see where you are coming from that you wish to keep trying to hope that the girl becomes interested again. More often than not, you end up driving her away. You should definitely move on in this case. I know you might feel that this girl may be the only one you got. Thus, why you don't want to move on yet.

Since you are age 18-24, I suggest you wait until you are past 25 on dating because it gets easier as you get older, but it's still very difficult.

[Asker]

I understand if she's not ready to date
but it would be nice if she told me that so id know thats what it was

[Popnlock]

Girls are good at ignoring dudes there not interested in, we all have facebook on our phones and see messages instantly, it's just easier to ignore then to say not interested... I'm guilty of this move as well but I only reject cougars

[Asker]

I know she sees them she just doesn't respond
i dont know whats going on

[Eeyore11784]

Unfortunately, I don't think she's interested anymore. I understand this situation all too well myself. I know exactly where you're coming from on wanting closure. All you can really do is flat out ask her if she's interested in you or not, but there's really no guarantee that she give you a straight answer; and if she doesn't answer the question at all, I hate to say it, but you've gotten your answer.

[Asker]

I don't know what i did wrong though
a closure would be nice but honestly an explanation would be be better
maybe tell me if it was something i said?

[Eeyore11784]

You can ask her if you said or did anything to upset her, but, once again, there's no guarantee that she'll give you a straight answer.

[Geordielass101]

Some girls have problems and they hide their feelings maybe she's having a hard time at the moment... It probably explains that there's no hate towards you... Probably why she was intested before as well. Just let things cool down for abit.. Maybe confront her in person talk alone and ask if she's okay etc

[Asker]

i dont know if thats a good idea to approach in person
i try to take it slow and get her to message me online before i do that
don't want her to feel like im stalking or i'm making her talk to me, i want her to decide
she wants to talk to me on her own

[Meghan87]

A girl is never going to just tell you she's not interested. Unless she's a total bitch. She's going to hint at it until you get the picture. So for now, yes.. stop talking to her. She'll initiate further contact if she's interested.

[Asker]

For how long
because i really like her i dont think i could just let go

[GraveTruth]

Leave her alone on facebook but try a different method. Some people are put off by facebook or they just hate using it for messaging.

[ClassyGuy97]

Wait a minute! Do you know her in person? Are you a good looking man too? She could be busy, give it time. And she could get back to you best of luck

[Asker]

i know her in person
yes i think im good looking but i'm told i'm "Boring"
i dont do much, i'm an inside person, i have a schedule, i go out on occasions so im thinking that may be why

[Usersame]

Stop talking to her. And stop with the compliments, first it's cute but it gets annoying fast.