3 months later she starts texting me again and this time I am very straightforward and she seems to enjoy my change.
We texted 3 days in a row for hours everyday every conversation was very sexual and direct which turned her on and kept her coming back for more in terms of text. Eventually we meet up and have sex in her car and afterward she wanted to cuddle and kept on kissing me and hugging me and saying how she wants to be my girlfriend if I give her a 2nd chance after she gets back from 3 months of vacation.
She wanted sex the very next day but I couldn't go to her place because I was at work...
The weird thing now is that after she got sex from me which she wanted the texting seemed to have died down again I text her something small like "How's your day going?" she replies 3 hours later... I offered her to "Hang out" with me tonight to hook up and she said she is feeling stressed but that definitely some other time we will.
Is this normal for her to slow down after she got what she wanted?
I figured after sex a girl might get more attached instead of slowing down contact?
I didn't reply her text when she said she couldn't tonight... Should I let her initiate next? I don't want to come off as desperate at all
I hope she had a good time and it wasn't my performance... even tho she claimed to have had the big O twice and I didn't even get to finish myself... after that she said she couldn't focus so we stopped but I made sure to give her a good time...
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You should let her initiate. Next time you guys talk maybe not do it through texting. If you are on the phone with her or in person then you can gauge her tone to see if she is acting "interested" in what you are talking about. Also try being direct and ask her what her expectations are. Does she only want to hookup every now and then? Or is she looking for a boyfriend? Is she dating around or looking to commit? That way you know exactly what kind of contact you can expect from her.
Well before I started talking to her again I was kind of dating but nothing serious... and she made it clear to me she said the following words... "For now I think we should date but not so seriously until I return from my vacations, I think we should continue going out and having fun"
Fun = sex
So from what she says what do you think she wants from all this?
She told me she wants to become my girlfriend when she returns... and lately she seems jealous about other girls in my life (friends)