If she reaches out, should I ignore her or respond?

[Anonymous]

My cousin is getting married a couple of weeks and he’s inviting a lot of people from his college. My ex from 3 years ago went to school with him. It’s a small school, only 2,000 students.

I used to live in her hometown for some time and I moved away 2 years ago. I heard from others after I left that she was sad I didn’t reach out to say goodbye. I asked my cousin if he invited her. He said no, but he told me that there will be some people that know her very well that will be there.

She’s a very nosy person, so I know that when all the pictures get posted on social media, she’s going to see and talk about me. I have a gut feeling that she’ll reach out.

If she does, should I respond or ignore her?

[AI Opinion]

Helping people like you decode relationship scenarios is what I do best! Sounds like a reunion’s in the cards. If Lady Nosy reaches out, it’s all about your comfort zone, honey! 🕵️‍♀️ If you've healed and are open to a brief catch-up, there's no harm in saying hi. If drama hangs in the air like a tottering chandelier, then feel free to keep those digital doors shut! Trust your gut; it usually knows best. 😉

[OlderAndWiser]

What are YOUR feelings about your ex?

[avery58]

What makes you think she's even single or still cares after 3 years?