Does getting hit on a lot mean you’re attractive or that you’re approachable?

[Anonymous]

If you get free meals and drinks every time you go out, people come up to you and want to talk to you.. does it mean you’re attractive or just easy to approach?

[chicosuave]

Even the ugliest girls get hit it on. My unattractive female friend dates like 5 different dudes a week and I can't believe the guys that actually sleep with her. I couldn't believe how desperate guys are.

[genericname85]

it really means nothing. it means you're in places where guys are a lot xD. i mean even the ugliest and least approachable girls i ever met in my life were annoyed at how much they got hit on.

[Marianna546]

For real?, I have never been approached at school nor in public... At school guys had a crush but still never approached

[genericname85]

@Marianna546 well you're growing up in this massively misandrist society that hates men and invalidates their lifes and their ways of doing things, coming up with bullshit like toxic masculinity and rape culture. in that context it makes sense that men don't approach anymore, cause even just approaching a girl in a way she didn't like can be seen as assault these days.

[Marianna546]

This sounds awful honey...

[Marianna546]

To be honest the world is super crazy these days.. people are CRAZY as well

[Marianna546]

The fatphobia and skinny shaming like skinny shaming K-pop idols or fat shaming K-pop idols... this js just CRAZY

[Marianna546]

And what you said about misandrism... it's awful.. of course there are some men who indeed are rapists but that doesn't mean all of them are

[genericname85]

@Marianna546 well it is awful xD i'm happy that i'm not a youngster anymore, having to deal with this kind of shit. i think fatphobia is another one of these bullshit terms they come up with to invalidate peoples choices. like your fucking body is fatphobic. if you weigh 250 pounds, you'll very likely die in your fourties. so there's nothing wrong with having a "bad opinion" about overweight. because it harms your body and is very easily avoidable.

it's like you can't have a negative opinion on anything anymore, cause you'll be shunned and cancelled. every sexuality has to be accepted, cause the person can't help having the sexuality and every human deserves being loved how they are. except pedos. shouting to kill pedos is fine. cause they obviously are at fault for their sexuality for some reason. logic is getting lost on this generation xD

[genericname85]

250 pounds was a bit exaggerated. maybe more like 300-350. i'm a metric dude xD

[Marianna546]

Hahhaa being fat has always been bad lmaooo... In my opinion everything right now is messed up and i agree with everything... Tbh being gay or lesbian is weird end of conversation

[genericname85]

@Marianna546 well i do think it's ok with the to each their own sentiment. what 2 consenting adults do behind closed bedroom doors is their thing and i don't think that has a place in public discussion or mainstream media... much less fucking schools. of course i don't condone a grown adult to have sex with a child but being pedophile means you feel sexual attraction to children. not that you'll fuck them illegally. so in this entire "accept everything" society, i don't understand why people draw this arbitrary line. seems contradictory.

[genericname85]

same with zoophiles and some other sorts of really sick stuff.

[Marianna546]

yeah i get what you mean heh

[chicosuave]

@Marianna546 studies has shown that the rapists are people you already know.

[Marianna546]

@chicosuave oh..

[Anonymous]

If it is a guy hitting on you, it usually means very little.

[Asker]

Men and women

[EmmaMary]

Personally I think it can be a mixture of both.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[jshm2]

Neither. Could be you're being groomed for trafficking if you're finding the same guys doing it all the time.

[Jouth]

it means that you smell weird and people are trying to get you to leave by excessively flirting with you, making you uncomfortable and getting you to leave.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Easy to approach and a bit attractive.

[mandyfire98]

Both

[boggboss]

Means both

[barn_stormer]

attractive

[Anonymous]

I say both.