Girls, What do Shy Guys usually do wrong when they approach a Girl?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Easy — they don’t approach. Maybe they’ll wanna do it or think about it but I’ve never personally experienced it. I once dated a shy guy, and that only happened because his friend told me he liked me but was too shy to approach, so I approached him, and from there he initiated majority of the time.

[Asker]

I already knew that, What else do they do wrong when approaching a Girl?

[Opinion Owner]

What can be done wrong if they aren’t approaching?

[Asker]

Like if they come off Creepy or Weird.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not creepy or weird to not approach...

[Asker]

I can understand that, But what else do they do wrong usually?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not sure how else I can say what I’m saying. You’re asking what they usually do, to which I’ve said what can they do if they aren’t approaching? Essentially it’s like you’re saying “how did that soup taste?”, then I say “I never tried it”, and you’re saying “I get that but how did it taste?”. See how that’s not making sense?

[Asker]

I'm just asking about what other things Shy Guys do that look Unattractive when they Approach you Girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Tbh I don’t think shyness would have much to do with it at all, because something in your approach could be just as unattractive as that of a guy you’d deem a polar opposite. If I had to name one thing just for the heck of it, I’d say not to make it too awkward, like trying to to make much eye contact, lack of conversation, things of that nature.

[Anonymous]

Scared to ask her out and she thinks he’s being friendly.