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Of course haha and I do check people out pretty obviously, cause yeah I'm bold like that and mostly the guy just smiles in appreciation for me finding him good and sometimes I get approached
I remember one time, we were in Croatia on vacation and this guy came out of the water and I checked him out so obviously, he was really hot and I said something on german, not thinking he would understand me, but he laughed so hard, he was german and we talked for a while, then we wished each other a nice day and that's it
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Lol numerous times, actually. Now obviously, I never try to make it too obvious because the girls where I'm from are generally very conservative and if they sense you looking at them funny, you're in for a smacking of your life.
But there is this one funny incident where I was caught red-handed. So there's this close female friend of mine whom I've known for over 3 years now and I find her really attractive. One day after class, we were outside and I was sitting on the bench while she was standing in front of me, checking her phone, her hip jutted to the side. She was wearing skinny jeans which gave me a nice view of her ass.
Now again, I wasn't trying to make it obvious, but she caught me giving her hips sideward glances, to which she simply laughed and said "like my ass? It's fine. In fact, I sometimes stare at your bulge as well when you're in those grey sweatpants of yours after gym."
* By the person I'm checking out?
Yeah pretty much every time. That's usually because I checkout their faces.. I'd checkout her butt or thigh too if I didn't see the face but if I get caught it's cause of eyes get lit.
Even when I don't check them out but just sweep my surroundings I get caught catching them catching me😅.
* Caught by someone else other than the victim of your gaze?
Not so common or rather it's hard to tell cause you're obviously not paying attention to the person watching you, unless you're just that observant and flick over your eyes on them when you get that itchy feeling of someone watching.
I only check people out if there is intense mutual attraction cause I don’t trust myself to hide it if I do it. I have never been caught except one time where I was attracted to a guy and he sent somebody to ask me out, it happened at least once.
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Once as I was leaving the gym. I saw a woman entering as I was leaving and the results of her efforts were very, very noticeable. I did not even realize I was staring as long as I did until she called my attention. When she asked what I was looking at, I apologized and straight up told her she was hot and caught my attention but that I am sorry if I made her uncomfortable and promised her I would be more mindful in the future. She laughed and said I was the first guy to own up to it when caught.
Yeah probably more times than I realize maybe.. But for the most part I'm pretty stealthy about it.. If the person is around my view for a while I take multiple glances when I know they are not paying attention.. A couple of women have turned around and caught me, but for the most part I feel like I mastered the art of taking quick glances before they notice.. 😂..
I've been caught a few times. Excuse me, a few hundred times.
But I've also been "caught" when I wasn't even doing it. Women just assume men are constantly staring at them, which may or may not be true, but I've gotten dirty looks when I was just looking at something behind or in front of them
Don't flatter yourself bitchLmao I did like once, and I had to act like I was looking for somebody after. I quickly looked away. I kept looking in all directions. Hands on hips and puzzled face, then I calmed down and sat down on my phone like I was texting and waiting for that person. I worked it well but my adrenaline was pumpingg! LOL
Yes lol. I noticed a guy as I was going into my doctor's office. He was ahead of me and he held the door. We ended up on the same elevator. He was really hot lmao. I kept trying to sneak and look at him. I thought I wasn't being obvious but when he got off (he got off the floor before me), he turned around and caught me staring. He just laughed and then winked. I was horrified 😂
Of course yes, but actually when my SO is with me he definitely caught me checking someone not guy but actually I'm particularly checking girls passing by than man. He even find it weird since he said most likely men will check opposite sex so I should check men as well. But I just mesmerized what woman can look in different ways in different location and mood. (Just an observant one!)
Yes , with hopes she will make eye contact with me back , it’s usually easier to break the ice that way on whether to approach her or not , you can usually tell by the way someone looks at you if they are interested in you or not , it’s not always a 100 percent accurate but it’s better to take the chance then to not take the chance at all. It’s even better if you catch them checking you out first.
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yep, a couple of times...
and other few times was on purpose... wanted her to know that I was, because I knew they were not going to mind it... lol It’s like picking your nose or scratching your ass. We all do it, but no one wants to get caught.
A crew scheduler at an airline where I used to work was taking a flight. It was a small plane and passengers boarded out doors. The first officer was at the foot of the stairs as she was boarding. A friend took her picture and the FO was plainly checking out her ass.
Being a crew scheduler, at a small airline, she knew every pilot. She gave him a copy of the picture.My ex girlfriend's teenage sister caught me a few times checking out her rack. Like she was super young and puberty hit her hard and all of a sudden she went from being completely flat chested to having a giant rack.
I was once walking at a mall with my buddy and he started saying "Zag! Zag!" and nudging me and I was like WTF and finally I noticed he wanted my attention to a hot girl with big-time cleavage walking towards us and I looked straight into her cleavage and said "Oh!", when she was about 2 feet away.
One time😂 I was in the store and I looking all over this aisle for Raos chicken noodle soup and as I was leaving the aisle a gay guy with like booty shorts on walked pass and I turned around because I wanted to make sure I was on the right aisle and when I looked back a bunch of girls were staring at me giggling because from where they were standing it looked like I was looking at his ass I just left my cart and walked out of the store
Uh huh. The other day at the gas station I was maybe looking at the guys butt as he was pumping gas. He was really cute. When he got done he walked past me on the way to go into the store. He smirked a little and said “Yeah I think you got a nice a$$ too”.
needless to say My face was bright red and I just jumped in my car and drove off.
What happened was, "Don't look at my feet, Bri an."
And, "Do you like my shoes?"
😂😂😂
😂 absolutely, next thing I know I have a fresh drink & a great conversation, sometimes (this was before I was settled with my SO) a fun rest of the night too.
I've been caught before, but not with my current SO.
"I had better not catch you looking at another woman... ever!"
I took that at face value.
Yes in a locker room. She screamed at me. That’s what sunglasses are good for.
Never. I usually don't keep my gaze on someone for more than a few seconds and I'm careful to not let them catch me.
Yes, unfortunately. In the worst possible way. I’m better than that, and i always have been. Got caught once, when it mattered in MY mind. Probably didn’t in hers, but there you have it.
Yes, and I just smiled. I didn't care that they knew.
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