Guys, Why do men expect the woman to make the first trip for a meeting if it living in a different town? Or is it just a certain type of man?

[Anonymous]

I found that men nowadays have a mentality woman are supposed to make a trip to a meeting place if you live in a different town or something like that

. It's not the man who makes the trip from his town to her town. Doesn't mean he has to pick her up, it's the attempt/effort

Why is that? I was raised at the man makes the first move in the woman follows in dating. So it's a mutual adventure afterwards.

And that only more trampish, slutty, etc. woman make the first move in this sense.

[Lionman95]

I think it´s a new trend that guys ask women to show the first iniative because many guys nowadays are suspicious of women and the time where guys risked a lot to get a woman is over. I think it´s not the regular thing but it might be the future.

[Asker]

No they're just lazy What does it take to go somewhere? You do it for work, you do it for sports events and festivals Etc. What it is is men have gotten used to whores that will do anything

[Lionman95]

That´s also true. It could definetely be laziness as well.

[blissinanarchy1]

Because women are often flakey tbh, so I don’t waste time and gas. I’m from an inmer city too, where if you meet a girl for a “date” there’s a big chance she’s lining you up with a boyfriend you didn’t know about waiting to rob you.

[Asker]

Then don't expect any good woman, as exemplified by the fact all you've met are those that are going to rob you

[blissinanarchy1]

I try to keep an open mind to avoid being an incel or misogynistic. But reality is, women cause a LOT of problems

[Asker]

ROFL. Men and women with no standards cause problems for everyone else

[Likes2drive]

It’s ok for women to do that but I usually meet them somewhere, they don’t want me to pick them up at their place but I don’t expect them to come to me either, I guess guys are getting lazy

[Asker]

I get not meeting at the house. But expecting a woman to travel to your city instead of you traveling to their city. Or even somewhere in between. It sounds more like a call girl than a potential date

[Likes2drive]

Yeah I never ask them to do that, maybe meet in the middle if they are far but that’s about it but some would rather come to guys area at times

[Avicenna]

That's new. Men of my generation didn't expect that.

[Asker]

That's the funny thing, it was a guy that was in his mid/later 40s. It's have been a couple of men that are in their 40s.

Being very mature I usually go for older men not by much as bluntly guys my age some of them don't know what they're doing and I don't mean sexually I mean in relationships