Is my coworker correct, she says that I'm too timid and rarely sees me flirt or talk to any girls? She did tell me to hit on some girl's at work?

[poneglyphs]

I'm not really sure because the very few girls who I was interested in wasn't into me. So, I don't try at work.

[MrCommodore]

I'd be more careful about flirting at work, in fact its something I try to avoid.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, I won't try to date anyone at work sadly

[Monalisa77]

This is why i dont make it so obvious as dont want the gossip s

[MrCommodore]

@Monalisa77 We can't always help who we fall for, but I definitely wouldn't date someone at eork unless I really liked her.

[Monalisa77]

I don't really have much choice. We could easily ignore each other if things went wrong and my jobs only temporary anyway

[MrCommodore]

@Monalisa77 Cool, well in that case you should start making moves on him, it's low risk. I mean making moves to encourage him to make the first move.

[Monalisa77]

Yeah im definitely gonna try get to know him on our walk, im even thinking of getting my mum to lift me in town if that goes well we can walk more often 😂

[MrCommodore]

@Monalisa77: Cool, sounds like you have a plan.

[Guy13]

Follow her lead... co-worker's lead.

[poneglyphs]

Uhh but I don't like anyone at like that 😳. The that I did already left and the others have a br

[Guy13]

She knows you better than you know herself is what I am saying. We never see ourselves as we really are. this is why it is super helpful to have girlfriends. Is she just a friend or has there been any kind of romantic involvement?

[Guy13]

Oh, I see. Tell her that and see if she comes up with any alternative. She sounds like she wants to see you happy. She might be dropping hints too…she’s a girl at work. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[poneglyphs]

Nah, she's an older coworker and she's in her 40's and is married

[Guy13]

"Get a new job." Teasing but you know what I mean. Sounds like she is a nice lady and friend !!

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, she is we make each other laugh at work and we always goof off she's a blast. Also, I rarely talk to anyone about my past or relationships with people at work

[RobT312]

No need to hit on girls you are not interested in

[poneglyphs]

Yeah that is true

[Avicenna]

Well, I wouldn't take her advice about flirting at work, but if she thinks you are too timid, I'd pay attention to that because you probably are coming off that way to all women you encounter.

[poneglyphs]

I think she says that because I rarely ever try to hit on girls or tell her my past relationships.

[Avicenna]

Well, it's up to you to decide if her advice is worthwhile, but there might be something useful there.

[Anonymous]

Flirting is not a job requirement, but she is dropping hints.

[poneglyphs]

I doubt it she's married and has 2 kids

[exitseven]

You need to be more assertive it looks like.

[poneglyphs]

But where like in work or somewhere else 🤔

[NathanDavis]

don't hit on at work...

just don't

[poneglyphs]

Ahh, okay

[Anonymous]

don't shit where you eat.