Does it mean your ugly to your man?

[Anonymous]

If he looks at other girls when you're out in public n text other females and flirts with them

[PositiveFlight]

No, not at all. Men aren’t naturally monogamous and never will be. It’s a proven fact. It’s easy for a woman to take it personal that there might be something about her whether it be her looks or something else that he dislikes. But in reality, there often times isn’t a thing wrong with her. So much so that the man still is crazy for her. But he is capable of being attracted to and loving more than one woman at the same time. Now by all means, this doesn’t at all make what he’s doing right if you as a woman don’t consent to it. I’m just stating the facts of how men are naturally wired. As men and women, we both need to learn to understand one another better which would make the “why” we often times think and do things differently not appear as an attack. Men and women’s brains are both wired so differently. But one isn’t by any means inferior to the other. Sometimes even the opposite of each other. We are complementary opposites for good reason often times. That’s something I wish women and men better understood. So don’t think there is anything wrong with you. You aren’t “ugly” or unfit in any other way.

[20yearsolder]

What it means is Your man has no respect for you. Has nothing to do with whether you're uglier or not. Get rid of the asshole and find a guy that wants to be with you.

[Nxtawm]

Not at all! Don’t blame yourself for this type of shit. No matter how beautiful you are, you could be drop dead gorgeous, some people would still cheat and flirt, it’s not due to any reason of yours, it’s their own personal issue. I would highly suggest dropping him because it’s disrespectful as is but especially so if he does it with you right in front of him. Shows he truly does not care and you deserve better.

[BarryLiverstone]

Probably not. Why would you feel ugly if he chose you?

[Asker]

But if I was cute to him wouldn't he not have time for other girls

[BarryLiverstone]

The logic doesn’t add up. Everyone has needs and you can’t expect to meet all his 24/7. Also there will be beautiful people to see and interact with in life. If he never looked and only focused on you that would make him unattractive to you eventually right?

[Asker]

I guess that makes sense

[BarryLiverstone]

The better question to ask is does he know your love language?

[Asker]

He knows so much about me best boyfriend I ever had

[BarryLiverstone]

Well if he is filling your love bucket and you feel desired by him I’m curious why you are asking the question.

[Asker]

It's that I'm insecure when he does that

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t be. If he really wants someone else and doesn’t feel happy with you then it will happen. Otherwise you are his queen so feel secure and beautiful

[BarryLiverstone]

Either that or buy a wig and pretend to be someone else so he can flirt with you and enjoy it :)

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. I don’t feel like I really answered your whole question but gave it my best try

[Fryday_Knight]

No, but it shows his lack of respect for you as a boyfriend.

[NZGirl07]

It shows he is a cheater and not a good boyfriend.

[LazerBean]

No, it just means you have bad judgement in men.