If you continue to listen to his rubbish he will lead you off the edge of a cliff, block out his shit let it go in one ear and out the other because what he is clearly doing is breaking down any shred of confidence or self-esteem you have, by time he's finished you will start believem#ng every word he has said and seeing yourself as what he describes you as it's the oldest trick in the book if someone is feeling inadequate or threatened in any way they will project what they feel and make it look as though everything is wrong with you instead of dealing with their own deep seated issues, so take charge and love yourself and do not listen or allow him to define you with his cruel words it's not you he is the ugly one.
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He's insecure and weak but projects all of that onto you. It helps to make him feel better. From what you have written it sounds like he cares too much about what other people think of you and him. I would tell him he is ugly for calling you ugly and I can guarantee he won't like it. If you criticised the size of his dick (or the limpness) then that would not go down well. There is an underlying problem here which is his unhappiness about certain aspects of his life. You need one of those everything on the table talk.
Well that's just sad. What kind of loving husband calls his loving wife ugly? My significant other makes me feel like a goddess. He calls me beautiful among other things every day, he constantly tells me I am the most beautiful girl in the world, he tells me the things he loves about me, how amazing I am to him. He still melts like a high school prom date every time I fix myself up and dress up when he takes me out on a date or nice dinner. You should marry someone who makes you feel, well, in love, no?
lol.. he is probably the weird one. You should know yourself how you look. It's not that hard. Calling yourself ugly and unattractive is just disrespectful.
Smile would lead to hardness was super funny. Don't listen to him too much and go with your instincts. Some people can't help being negative.
Why the hell would he marry someone whom he doesn't find attractive?
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That's so pathetic of him.
He obviously married you for a reason and I'm sure it's not because you're ugly, looks like he's just trying to bring you down and ruin your self-esteem, probably because he has absolutely none himself.
I'd consider a divorce if I was you, he sounds like one of those toxic people you don't wanna be around.Lmao and that would be one ugly ass divorce I serve him up too! Don't out up with his shit plain ans simple. People get away with, what you let them. Put your foot down and if he won't act right... you better put in o. t at work and save for a permanent separation.
When a person acts like this, then they are just uncaring and disrespectful. Tbh, you shouldn't put up with that shit. If you don't have kids, move him out.
Leave. He is emotionally abusive. No one who loves you treats you that way.
My ex husband used to treat me like that when he would lose his erection. There were other things also... but I'm so glad he is now my ex.
If he's using that word to be hurtful , then more likely your quite the opposite.
WTF, that's so rude, don't listen to him. You're his wife!!! If he didn't find you attractive then why'd he marry you? Omg... He sounds insane. Dump his lame ass!
Men like women who participate in sex and make the sex hotter...
Of you are not participating and just lying there then it could get boring...
It's not about you looks!!!Tbh, I dont ever call people ugly even if I am thinking that.
He is an asshole. Find someone that likes you the way you are
He is emotionally absuive and that is not ok.
Why, again, did you marry him?
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