I’m a shy girl, I don’t know where to put my hands when making out so it will lead to more, I usually just put my hands on his neck and run my fingers through his hair. Anyone have any tips?
it's perfectly fine to touch, caress or hold him in any area you'd like him to touch, caress or hold you. You can caress his face, ears, shoulders, arms, hug him or kiss him on areas beyond his lips. At your age, I wouldn't touch him below his waist, as that may be seen as an invitation to do whatever he wants. You can explore how it feels to you and him to explore using your lips, tongue, eye lashes (butterfly kisses), cheeks, nose, fingers, back of your hands, arms, etc. Savor the sensations. This is the time to explore and discover a little at a time, not to rush to any end goal (just to have it over). Be patient, subtle and sensual. Keep your voice and actions soft and gentle. Check out YouTube videos on ASMR, so you can discover how to share sounds that might be soothing and relaxing, which allows the experience to linger over time. Whatever you do, never overwhelm him with any aspect of yourself. Extremes will only lead him to use you up and then pass you down to the next guy. Let your makeup and perfume just be a hint of something special; let him see and smell you, not something you hide behind.
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The best idea is just hug and its also okay to make it clear what is okay and not okay being intimate comes down to communication.
If you don’t feel comfortable with it, that’s where you stop. You need to get to know yourself and set healthy boundaries.
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That's the best. Run your fingers through his hair, back and pull him closer to your body. If he start to grab your anything, enjoy for some time and slowly move your hand to his dick.
Face. Connect your hands around his neck or on his waist.
Do whatever is more comfortable for you.
there are no rules, explore
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