What is the most popular reason for your 'secret admirer' not wanting you to notice them?

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What is the most popular reason for your secret admirer not wanting you to notice them?
They like to watch, but don't think you'd ever actually go out with them.
They aren't ready to approach yet, but when they are they will make themselves more obvious.
Their feelings might be too strong and they're afraid you will get scared of the intensity.
They have nefarious intentions.
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What is the most popular reason for your 'secret admirer' not wanting you to notice them?
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