Do you think everyone has a secret admirer at least once in life?

[curiouschica]

Like they like you but you never know...Thoughts? I think it's kind of fun to imagine so! I don't believe that whole if your necklace is turned around someone is thinking of you though!

[AllDay]

I think so.

I mean there are so many people in this world.

Someone is bound to admire you from afar!

I didn't think I would ever have one but I did

Also, I think people should give themselves enough credit to think yeah I had an admirer while still keeping their feet on the ground.

[curiouschica]

As in not getting a big head? =p

[AllDay]

Yes!

[iwish46]

I was thinking about this the other day. Although it seems unlikely that someone doesn't have a secret admirer (due to the number of people we meet in a lifetime) I'm guessing there are some people who never do. I've never heard of "that whole if your necklace" thing.

[curiouschica]

lol I guess it was a middle school thing...basically girls said if your necklace turned around so the back was in the front it meant that someone was thinking of u...ha yeah right!

[May31]

I think everyone gets one at some point. That's what the whole "secret" thing is there for, you're not supposed to know! Some people have secret admirers and they think that they don't because they don't get anything "anonymously" but some people are just too shy for that.

[curiouschica]

Exactly! Agreed!

[Anonymous]

I do think everyone at one point does have one they just don't know

[curiouschica]

Yep! Kinda sad actually...

[Nicolex90]

If suzan Boyle has one I'm pretty sure everyone does

[curiouschica]

lol Did she?

[Nicolex90]

Yep she has her fan club everyone has beauty but not everyone can see it :)

[jaugar]

I'm maybe the most clueless person ever when come to secret admirer but truly, I don't think I have secret admirer. I remember one girl sent me email she say she knew my name and put my name on her rique pics which it crazy and creepy I am so flattered at same time. I wonder where the hell she get my email and know my last name. Guess what? me and her work at the same company plus she say she always look at me when I look away it make me think if it is a prank or weird stuff something like that.

[curiouschica]

lol Girls do that stuff too! We are very sneaky! =)

[jaugar]

Yes! they are very sneaky naughty girls! But I don't see her face pic :( it still getting in my head for three years lol.

[curiouschica]

lol that's odd! Eh you'll forget when you have Alzheimer's! ha ha j/k!

[jaugar]

Haha! that good one! it make me laugh. Yea it work well for girl to send me mail.

[kheserthorpe]

No. I'd guess only a minority of people have secret admirers. And those people have lots.

Most of us have to actually interact and build something, not just rely on being so magnetic that people secretly want us.

[curiouschica]

But I would think that's necessary in the first place to actually have an admirer...as in I would figure it's someone who sees you in your day to day routine...

[WoIIie]

Most people had a secret admirer at some point. I wouldn't say everyone did.

It is fun to imagine.

Dam I regret not talking to that girl up in Big Bear. She made it so obvious. I'm such a dumbass. This has nothing to do with the question...

[WoIIie]

Wth I didn't mean to rate this one star its my stupid fingers screwing everything

[curiouschica]

lol I have no idea what you're talking about with Big Bear! Thanks for the star comment! =)

[kairon156]

and yet another person that wishes they could change their vote. it happens to me when I want to give a + or - and click the wrong one by accident .

[Anonymous]

nope. I was an ugly dumbass in school. come to think of it, there was one girl that liked me but that was in pre-k. there was also a girl that supposedly like me in high school. I think the people who said that were joking but it was awkward because I was the only guy there who thought she was ugly. not just not pretty.

[curiouschica]

Hmm well maybe times will be looking up soon?

[Opinion Owner]

hopefully

[lots2000]

your secret admirer is the that guy who you consider to be your best male friend (in other words a guy you friendzoned)

[curiouschica]

Hmmm I suppose that happens often...but I was thinking more random...

[Anonymous]

I'm going to say yes. it's possable that most people will have at least one secret admirer. I've admired a few girls in my life and never told them other than blank Valentine's cards and a poem one time.

[curiouschica]

That's sweet! I'm sure it made their day!

[Opinion Owner]

I thought so :) she made my heart rush every time I seen her. I wish I was as social as I am now back when I was in junior high.

[curiouschica]

Awesome! It's nice to know guys get that "rush" too! =) It's never too late to change!

[Opinion Owner]

yeah guys feel like that too ;). I'm still shy when I'm trying to talk to a girl I have a crush on but I'm not shy around every girl any more. LOL

[curiouschica]

Progress! lol =)

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

I'm not sure, I think a lot of people have one at one point but I can't say that everyone has one or has had one.

[curiouschica]

Fair enough...diplomatic answer...

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

Thanks. haha

[BCRanger10]

I think they do. I mean, we're around other humans all the time, so it's highly unlikely someone wouldn't have noticed :P

[curiouschica]

=) Agreed!

[TheBlaxican]

Naw. There's probably a few people without admirers

[curiouschica]

Aw that's sad!

[Anonymous]

I hope this guy I know is my secret admirer. Probably not though :(

[curiouschica]

I know the feeling...here's to hoping!

[kairon156]

I do. in grade 8 or 9 I got 3 valentine cards from girls I never knew. one group of girls that handed it to me was a grade or two below me. (only one name on the card) never a last name though.

[eaeaea]

Everyone? Not likely.

[curiouschica]

Hmm I beg to differ lol

[eaeaea]

EVERYone? You can differ all you want, I'm sticking with my answer. :]

Not EVERYone, but surely most!

[curiouschica]

lol OK that works for me! =)

[eaeaea]

:P

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Ive had one and she destroyed my heart.

[curiouschica]

Oh so you told her?

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Well she admired me.

[curiouschica]

And? She changed her mind?

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Nope we dated.

[curiouschica]

Oh well maybe it was for the best...

[Xx_DRE_xX]

I know lol.

[Anonymous]

i don't think so I'm pretty ugly tbh

[curiouschica]

lol don't sell yourself short! And maybe your personality is 10/10! lol

[helpha]

hell yes,

[curiouschica]

=)

[Deft_maiden]

Idk..

[curiouschica]

Gee thanks! lol

[Deft_maiden]

Honestly I don't know :) if I did he never came forward. Hence secret admirer

[curiouschica]

True...idk too...lol

[Deft_maiden]

See! we don't know. Perplexing indeed o.O

[cyrus7]

No

[curiouschica]

lol! Why Cyrus why? =)

[cyrus7]

Because some people aren't attractive enough for that

[curiouschica]

Eh cheer up...everything will work out in the end!

[Lj236]

yeah I think so ;)

[curiouschica]

=) Sounds good to me! lol

[Lj236]

there are so many people. someone's gonna like you lol ;p

[curiouschica]

Unless you piss everyone off! Not you as in you but more general "you..." :) lol

[Lj236]

that would be very hard to do lol

[curiouschica]

You got rid of your shirtless pic! lol

[Lj236]

lol yes I did