My 33 year old male personal trainer told me I look so innocent I’m a 27 year old women what the hell does that even mean? Considering a new trainer?

[Anonymous]

I specifically told him I’m married with 2 kids on our first workout session this was said on our second workout session. Am I overreacting?

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he didn’t mean it that way. I would recommend talking to him

[RavVid]

Probably not overreacting and your first thought is right. But guys do tell girls that they are beautiful, cute, funny etc etc to get something out of them and it could be he just wants your money rather than sex. Though it could be both.

[Anonymous]

That is creepy. He is probably a predator of some kind.

[Asker]

I’m thinking he’s into young girls I didn’t take it as a compliment

[RavVid]

Reflecting on that I think you are right. He might have expressed surprise that you look younger than your age. The choice of words do indicate a predatory liking for too young girls.

Best not to have any association. Lots of trainers to choose from.

[slatyb]

That was totally inappropriate and unprofessional. You don't pay him for his opinion of your appearance. Get another trainer.

[Vikkrram]

Kinda weird. He should have kept things professionally

[Rogue_Agent]

It may be better for you to have a trainer of the same sex to avoid any awkward exchanges.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know what he means by that get him to explain

[Asker]

I was there for a workout not a conversation but you’re absolutely right! I just thought a trainer would keep things professional.

[Iron_Man]

They normally should but some do flirt

[maximumpower]

Yes, you are overreacting.
If you don't know what it means, recommend looking it up.

[Asker]

You must be another creep thinking it’s ok to comment on someone else’s appearance

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Probably because he didn't expect you to be married with kids.

[Asker]

He could’ve said I look so young or acted in shock when I told him I was married with kids this was said the next day randomly I’m not buying that

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

I think that's what he meant. Sometimes men don't realize what comes out of their mouths.

[Äxlbäksölöl]

Definetly wants to make a skin suit out of you

[UniquelyBasic]

He sounds super cringe 😅

[Asker]

It sure does for a 33 year old man

[In_Trance]

It means this is going to turn into a porn plot

[Dreamclouds]

No you are not just find another trainer

[Danny_dan92]

He’s flirting