Why are most people super attracted to me AND then get weird af down the line?

[Anonymous]

I'm cool with people being attracted to me. Physically & mentally That's not the issue.

What the issue is they act weird. Weird vibes like scared to approach or be themselves around me?

Even when I think something is off and try to reassure everything is good between us... they are still super fucking awkward after that?

It's like they are hella confident then get scared, awkward or weird after...

What's going on?

[FilmGuy93]

Could be a lack of confidence thing... there a lot of people who can't really handle the idea of being casually sexual and romantic with someone without leaning into it full-tilt. They can't just call a relationship what it is and they struggle with boundaries. Like, I love the idea of having on-going, casually intimate sexual relationships with multiple women, but I've found that women who lack confidence have trouble saying okay, I'm having sex with this man and doing my own thing.

[Asker]

True dat.

[MrCommodore]

Sounds unusual, I've never been like that with a even a girl I thought was super hot. You must be in a different league

[Asker]

What kind of different league you mean?

[MrCommodore]

As in you must be super attractive, more beautiful than the average or even above average girl. Because its unusual to have that kind of affect on people.

[Asker]

Honestly I'm very humble at the thought. Like I doubt it but lol that sounds silly but I guess? Maybe? Idc I just wish people weren't afraid of me

[MrCommodore]

I don't think they're afraid of you, I'd say it's more that they may just think you're stunning and they are slightly intimidated. Probably your humble nature enhances it even further.

[Asker]

Omg sir stop gasing me up 😂lol thank you but honestly I'm just being me...

[MrCommodore]

Well you initially said most people are super attracted to you and then act weird after, so I'm basing my opinion on that. Like I haven't seen your picture, so it's all guess work based on what you describe.

[Chad345]

Maybe get to know them better? Like hang out and get to know him better, so you can see if he really likes you as a person.