If you ask a girl what she did for Valentine's day, is it obvious why you are asking?

[Anonymous]

And if you ask further and ask if she went on a date or something, would it be obvious then?

[HollyK21]

Depends on my relationship with the person asking but just as rule of thumb, I generally don’t like making assumptions.

[Asker]

We work together, and talk sometimes.

[HollyK21]

Gotcha. Well then I’d say the question is what you make it. The topic is expected since vday is today, everyone will be asking someone else what they did for the holiday. But if you like have a crush or flirty dynamic with her then yeah she may think you’re asking out of romantic interest.

[Wise4myage]

Not necessarily.