I'm just curious about it. What gets your attention when you see the opposite sex first?
Depends on the person.
Sometimes of course I notice appearance.
But a lot of times I’m to myself and don’t really pay attention to others. Sometimes people grab my attention. When I notice them and actually look at them more I then notice how attractive they are.
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Physica appearance os almost always first, firsy thing you see and can get a gut reaction to.
If you find them physically appealing, this will encourage you to follow-up with a conversation, a conversation that potentially could make them even more attractive, or way less so.
If you don't find them physically attractive, a conversation could still win you over.
Appearance is the first thing I notice.
For example, Vika Levina from your profile photo caught my attention years ago though I did not know how she behaved.
Women in real life can also have that power.
I'm probably not the right person to answer this question, but I'd say appearance. It catches my attention first. Behavior comes immediately after, though. I'll forget about the appearance if the behavior is... just not it lol.
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Appearance is almost always the first thing a person notices about another person.
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It's usually appearance. My friends say that I fall easily for good looking men, but I can't help it. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
But of course, if he's attractive but has a s****y personality/behavior then I have no interest in him.
Appearance because behavior takes time to analyze. The later is however required for being girlfriend material.
Appearance will always attract first because that’s what you see first. Behavior is shortly afterwards, but sometimes that can manifest slowly as the false persona gets stripped away until you see the bare nakedness of someone’s actual self.
her face first. when a group of girls i only see the ones facing me not notice the ones back toward me despite films showing guys like to stare at pants asses.
Most people would be lying if they didn’t say looks. Especially men.
However not everybody is that shallow. We might feel initially attracted but something in their behavior Can turn is off.Appearance, personality, voice, or smell (or smell of perfume, good or bad). Hard to tell.
Some days maybe cleavage just catches my eyes or tight pants 😜🫣😜🫣Waist hip ratio if they are distant. Closer, then it will be face, hair, boobs and legs.
But more it is the way a girl moves that sparks my interest.Usually appearance first and then their behavior after you start-up a conversation.
Behavior. If you are friendly and approachable, then you could be a 5/10 or less and I would approach.
Appearance is obviously the first thing that gets my attention. Behavior and personality come once I start getting to know her.
Appearance initially, not going to lie, men are visual creatures but the more I matured I realized thats not the best outlook for a good relationship so appearance still matters but the behavior impacts whether I stay attracted or not.
Appearance but I watch peoples behavior and plain people can become attractive...
Appearance, but nothing will kill my attraction to someone faster than seeing them behave poorly.
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I don't know. I look baby cute but i always get ignored by guysIf i met them in person, appearance. If i met them online, behavior
It's usually her appearance of how she is dress and how well she is physically. I do like seeing how she carry herself also and if she has a nice or rude personality.
Appearance 1st, behavior you will need more time to fully understand a person.
In any point of the time in between if I ever fall in love, nothing matters.
Appearance but that's the least of my concern cause I know once I get to know the person that tends to go out the window which is more common than people think.
What's funny is that everyone is saying looks first but if someone says that without looks, personality won't attract most people by itself then people claim that personality is what attracted them to someone. Clown shit
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