He only flirts over text and barely talks to me in person?

[Anonymous]

So this guy got my Snapchat two days ago, we’ve been snapping constantly since then (like my snap score went up by a thousand!) sending me shirtless pics and flexing stuff. But I’m real life he doesn’t speak a word to me, sure we make eye contact and stuff, he gets kinda awkward etc. He has no problem talking with other girls but won’t speak with me! What does that mean?

Updates

1 y

*update* he’s a player and probably has flirted with every girl from our school according to my friends.

[ohsheeT]

It just means that he's really shy it's easier for him to flirt or to be somebody different than his true self when he's on the internet

I have caught myself doing the same thing if I really like a person I get kind of quiet but when I'm just your friend I can be so open so outgoing and that's the way I like it because that is the real me coming out

So if you really like this guy don't really let him know that you like him that much be his friend let him be himself and in time there will be a bond that is beautiful but if he finds out that you like him he will become quiet and shy and he won't let you in all the way because he's trying to be respectful and not always joking with you all the time I don't know for some reason guys are backwards I think sometimes I understand LOL

OK so what is a snap score how do I find it.
Yeah you have me curious

[Asker]

A snap score is basically the amount of pictures u send + the amount u receive

[ohsheeT]

Hmm don't know if I ever seen that

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he isn’t sure if you’re interested in him

[Sexiestjohnson]

Maybe your are fantasy materials alone or maybe he doesn't think you would be comfortable talking with him face to face because of your secret life with him. Either way be yourself. Get what you want out of the deal. Be kind too.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It means he's to socially awkward to be worth it or he's playing games or probably a couple other things, but whatever the why, sounds like way too much drama.

[justabuddy]

Super shy or a player.

[Asker]

May friends say he’s a player but he acts awkwardly with me than with other girls

[In_Trance]

Do you speak to him?

[Asker]

Yeah we have 2 classes together but we don’t really speak unless necessary

[In_Trance]

So then you don't speak to him

[Asker]

Not really in person, no

[In_Trance]

So to be clear you're wondering why he never talks to you in person while you never talk to him in person?
Is that correct?

[Asker]

Yeah 😭

[Asker]

But in my Dede he’s the one who texted me first

[In_Trance]

Smh... I think I know what the problem is here

[Asker]

What is it?

[In_Trance]

You want to talk to him but you're not talking to him
You expect him to know that you want him to talk to you but he doesn't know that you want him to talk to you

Talk to him!!!
Guys are not mind readers