I [M27] am currently single and would like to experiment with more mature women [40s,50s].
To be honest, I don't want to go into serious relationship now, with anyone (just friends with benefits if possible).
Ladies in their 40s or 50s, could you please help me with this. I don't wanna look like some creep or sound disrespectful while approaching these women.
- How to "recognize" that a women might be open to new experiences?
- Where to actually approach these women (I guess bars)? What places are good and what are not good?
- If I was to approach a mature women somewhere (bars, on the street, some social meetup...), what is the best way to communicate what I want without being jerk or looking immature?
- Is there something that I shouldn't do with more mature women? What kind of mistakes are instant fail?
I would really appreciate you advice on this, thanks :)
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Just try flirting with them and make feel like they're still beautiful. A lot of them used to be hot, but they know their looks are fading and they can't pull a man like they used to.
If you can somehow change their mind about that, it might turn them on enough to jump in bed with you.
Unless they're married, they probably haven't had a good fuck in a while.
Menopause might affect their sex drive though, I don't know. But I don't think you have to be as classy as you think
pretty good advice thanks. Any thoughts on is it possible to somehow recognize that a particular lady wants something like that. Perhaps by their makeup or the dress or something like that?
I think it's safe to assume more makeup and a sluttier clothing indicates promiscuity in most women, for sure.
But not always either, it's hard to tell based on that.
I've never tried with older women, but my guess is one of them will say yes if you ask enough of them lol
i think dating apps are your best bet
would you say that I should be open from start that I want just friends with benefits or should I play the game
open from the start
why, what's your reasoning for this... You mean if she already wants it that I should waste too much time?
shouldn't ***
most mature women would want something serious cause they are mature, however some may be open to something casual. I think you wouldn't want to hurt others by lying you want more and besides at the end of the day you definitely might not get what you want and just waste your time
I agree, it makes sense, thanks :)