Would it be weird to make a playlist for a girl I like?

[Naruto2000]

We talked a lot about music last week. So, I’ve been thinking about making a playlist for her. Would it be weird to do for someone I like?

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It's not weird at all! In fact, creating a playlist for someone you like is a thoughtful and sweet gesture. It shows that you pay attention to their interests and that you want to share something you enjoy with them. Just make sure that the songs you choose reflect your feelings towards them appropriately, without coming on too strong or inappropriately. Good luck with your playlist!

[Naruto2000]

Thanks for letting me know, I appreciate it! It’s very good to know that! Do you think it would be too much, if I told her that I made a playlist for her, then asked her out for coffee or lunch on the same day?

[California_Poppy]

Honestly, I love this type of thing! I still have quite a few CDs with a personalized playlist that were burned for me. (Just saying that makes me feel old af 🤣)

But seriously, I always thought is was very thoughtful and I enjoyed the exposure to new music. I found some of my favorite artists that way.

[Naruto2000]

Thanks! Would another option be letting her know and asking through a note? Asking for her phone number and letting her know I made a playlist for her to be specific. There’s other co-workers around us while we’re working and talking to each other. I don’t want any other co-workers knowing that I’m interested in her because it’s none of their business. Plus, I’m sure she wouldn’t want that out there either. I can stick the note in her locker at work.

[California_Poppy]

How long have you guys worked together / known each other?
Do you guys frequently talk? Or just recently?

[Naruto2000]

Just recently.

[California_Poppy]

Hmmm. If I were you, I would give it a minute. Take a little time to see if she is showing any signs that she's interested in you.
I would hate for you to put yourself out there and it doesn't work out. Then things are forever awkward at work.

If you get closer, you might be able to feel more comfortable asking her out or for her number face to face, which I think would be preferable to a note.

You can always make the playlist and save it for the right time.

[Naruto2000]

Thank you so much for the advice! So, what I’ll do is tell her that I made a playlist for her and ask for her phone number. If there’s co-workers around us, then I’ll write it down on a note and put it in her locker.

[AaronKrieger]

Nah, only if it's music that's new to her. I'd just give to her in a sarcastic way or whatever would be natural for you

[AmandaYVR]

That is a great idea. It's charming and endearing and a wonderful way for two people to get to know one another.

[Naruto2000]

Thanks for the insight, I appreciate it! Do you think it would be too much, if I told her that I made a playlist for her, then asked her out for coffee or lunch on the same day?

[AmandaYVR]

I can't say because I don't know how well you know each other, and the history of your relationship (friendship or whatever.) It's really a judgment call based on all of that.

But you two sound friendly already. So you can do something here.

[Naruto2000]

Sorry, one last thing. Would another option be letting her know and asking through a note? Asking for her phone number and letting her know I made a playlist for her to be specific. There’s other co-workers around us while we’re working and talking to each other. I don’t want any other co-workers knowing that I’m interested in her because it’s none of their business. Plus, I’m sure she wouldn’t want that out there either. I can stick the note in her locker at work.

[AmandaYVR]

Ok, in that case...

I'm still not sure how the playlist should factor in, timing-wise.
But I agree with you that it's none of anyone else's business, and slipping her a note is discreet (and kind of cute, too.)
Yes, give her your phone number, and it gives her some freedom, but also puts the ball in her court. (Girls need to be an active participant in relationships, too. Not just be chased.)
I really don't know, but maybe if she says yes to a date, you could give her the playlist at the beginning of that. It's sort of a little token gift, but it's actually very personal, and personalized to her. There's really no right or wrong time for it. But I can imagine if the date goes well, she'd have this nice way to get to know you after. You don't necessarily need her judging you based solely on your music taste. What's dwindling out of society now is face-to-face time. Let the tech be your backup. That's my intuitive sense about it.

[AliciaLee]

In my opinion, it wouldn't be weird. I think it would be a really cool idea because she might feel closer to you by you sending her song you like ro songs you think she would like. If she likes music and you've bonded over it, i think she will love it! Good luck!

[Anonymous]

If she thinks you are creepy, a playlist will only make it more creepy. If she likes you just as a friend, it will scare her away. If she already is attracted to you on some level she will like it very much.

Proceed daintily.

[IknowthatIdontKnow09]

It is not weird but cute

[Naruto2000]

Thanks for letting me know, I appreciate it!

[IknowthatIdontKnow09]

You welcome 👍

[Naruto2000]

Sorry, one last thing. Would another option be letting her know and asking through a note? Asking for her phone number and letting her know I made a playlist for her to be specific. There’s other co-workers around us while we’re working and talking to each other. I don’t want any other co-workers knowing that I’m interested in her because it’s none of their business. Plus, I’m sure she wouldn’t want that out there either. I can stick the note in her locker at work.

[Reem12345reem]

it's a great idea I wish someone did that for me

[sheikalana]

That's actually sweet and cute of you. She'll probably appreciate it.

[gothbxtch]

no i would love it if a boy i liked did this for me

[MilkRoseTea]

No it's not weird. If you have the same taste in music, she might appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

Go for it, she might really like it.

[Naruto2000]

Thanks, I definitely will!

[LostandFound__x]

That’s so cute

[Naruto2000]

Thanks, that’s good to know!

[4ngelic]

no no that's like the sweetest thing ever

[LavLavLuv]

Not weird

[In_Trance]

Who is she?