If you were 17, would you have felt awkward hitting on an almost 16-year-old girl at your grandparents neighborhood, pool?

[Anonymous]

This is one of those situations I wonder what if…. Like my grandma was talking to her and she said that this lifeguard said I was cute. I thought she was cute also. But I guess I felt weird because it was my grandparents neighborhood pool and I also had less confidence at that age. I don’t know. Sometimes I wonder what if. It’s definitely not the way to live ones life. But I have no way to find out who she even was unless I have the employment records from 2006 which I likely am not going to get…. so yeah. And at this point, it’s more likely than not that she’s married.. but sometimes I wonder.

[andreasderjuengere]

I wasn't awkward at all.

It's just that any girl that I put my eyes on at that age would be more attracted to the ''top guys'' only.

Bad luck :D - but I had a good share later in life. And meanwhile found that I kind of surpassed most of the former ''top guys''.

And THAT's the bad luck of all the girls who had rejected me back then. Heh heh.

[OlderAndWiser]

You gotta jump on an opportunity when it presents itself. Second chances are not the norm.

[chicken_nugget24]

This is what Facebook is for lol

[Asker]

I can’t remember her name and even if I did that would make it extremely hard

[chicken_nugget24]

Do you have friends from that neighbourhood?

[Asker]

No, I really don’t know anyone else from the neighborhood. It’s a 55+ community. I mean, of course people would have adult children living with them, but I don’t know any of them

I just think about this from time to time but unfortunately I can’t go back and do it again

[chicken_nugget24]

I'm sorry then. If u guys meet again, then it is fate

[Anonymous]

No, I sure wouldn't.