Would you ever hit a girl if she hit you first?

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Would your ever hit a girl after she hit you? First of all most girl's hits wouldn't even hurt but even if it did I know that I wold never raise a finger to a girl. But if she keeps on hitting me I would probably just restrain her or maybe walk away. I was always taught never to hit a girl. I know none of my friends would ever hit a girl. Maybe it's just a thing in the south. But I have seen a lot of guys on this site say recently they  yeah they would hit a girl. But would you really?

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

I just can't do it. Too much size and strength advantage, plus its just not in me to do that. HOWEVER, i have no qualms with sending a few female friends over to beat her within an inch of her life. The one thing i maybe respect less than guys who hit girls are girls that take advantage of the fact that most guys won't hit them, and think its ok to put hands on them. This girl i messed with in college but went sour got in my face outside the bar one night, i told her to back off a bunch of times, she threw a punch at me, and my friend Cherie came to my rescue and hit her with an absolute HAYMAKER from behind, then EARTHED her and jumped on her and beat the shit out of her in front of like 500 people, hahaha. Easily one of the most satisfying moments of my life.
Chris Rock pretty much sums up this topic perfectly...

Thatguy321 · Accepted Answer

no and if you hit her back you don't deserve your man hood parts. and I agree you walk away and dodge the hits without touching her.

washize · Accepted Answer

I believe people are allowed to defend themselves with adequate force. In the example you gave, she hit her boyfriend 2-3 times, he only slapped her back after she punched him. Now it would have been a different story if he broke her arm or put her into a coma. However MOST people have a physical reaction to physical violence.

I don't believe it is right for a man to beat a woman bloody simply because she smacked him. But I don't see anything wrong with him smacking her back either.

People are humans, and humans have reactions. If you don't put your hands on someone you shouldn't have to worry about them hitting you in self defense.

maziex93 · Accepted Answer

I don't like violence so I don't think male or female should hit anyone... But when it comes to it I think it's complete bullsh*t when women think they can strike a man but doesn't expect to get hit back... I have seen it. This one woman hit her boyfriend and he was telling her to leave him alone and get away. He actually walked away but she followed him screaming and hit him some more until he struck her back. She then proceeded to call the cops and said she was pressing charges. Bullsh*t.. Women stop with the double standard. If you hit a man, don't cry when he hits you back!!!

pineneedle · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I'd probably just be stunned if a girl or anyone hit me. I don't really know many people who do that, so it would definitely be a surprise. But then my natural instinct would be to just leave or run (if i needed to).
Everyone has the right to defend themselves if they are being attacked, but i think there is more maturity in walking away, or not rising to the bait, ya know. I'd have way more respect for the person who didn't fight back.

AndyWes · Answer

"Most girl's hits wouldn't even hurt"

If she's not a tiny little hamster, and you're not used to getting hit in the face? It will hurt.

Yes, if a girl hit me, I would hit her back. A few years ago a girl was rather upset with me, and smacked me in the face. I was stunned. Literally, I was not looking in her direction, so the blow came out of nowhere and rather surprised me.

I indignantly slapped her in reply, being careful to only use maybe half the strength I could have, since the point was not to knock her out. She ran off crying.

sovetskii13 · Answer

If she hits me or tries to then I got right to defense myself. I would let her attack me again and use some martial arts moves to take her down. Just because she's a girl doesn't mean she can hurt guys that way. Everyone must have rights to self defense.

mystix · Answer

Eh one time at bar girls father tried fighting me for talking to his daughter I walked away, then she went all nuts screaming at me I really didn't know what was up. Just started following me pushing me I just kept walking away.

I look back though I should've at least used my leg to push her back or something. Thought she was cute and wanted to chat obviously compliments were to much to handle lol.

She will get hers no worries firm karma believer :)

Anonymous · Answer

It would depend I guess. If it was a slap or something, probably not. But if she persisted, or just straight punched me in the face, it would be like the end of all things. I've been hit in the back of the ambulance by drunk men and women. It's pretty F-ing annoying to be honest, it hurts, and there's definitely a natural adrenaline fueled instinct to hit back.

Go ahead and lightly tap your fist against your cheek. Keep going a little harder until it hurts. It doesn't take much. It fucking hurts when a girl hits you, anyone who says it doesn't is lying.

Also, it's not like a guy punching another guy in the face does any less damage than a guy punching a woman in the face. A face is a face.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Potentially yes.

I'm 38, I haven't needed to yet. So the situation where I would is not something I've had come up in a typical decade.

If you can restrain her without using much force, great. I would likely try that first. But to be honest, I don't really know how to restrain someone properly. The less able you are to restrain them, the more likely you have to use more force.

Mr_Cellophane · Answer

I would never hit a girl unless she was coming at me with a weapon. Then I would be forced to defend myself. I would try to calm her down or just walk away from the situation. I know that I could cause more damage than she would and that is not something I would want. I was raised to respect woman and that plays a big factor in this.

ManaX · Answer

I don't understand women that seriously hit men it's not at all lady like, I don't understand men that hit women there is a clear disadvantage on the woman's side.
A girl that hits a guy multiple times then freaks out if he gets her back once is an idiot.
Then again a guy that hits a girl isn't really thinking straight, he should be strong enough to play defense/restrain her.

syrick · Answer

it depends was it a bare fist. if so then i give her one freeby everyone gets a freeby. im about equality im a sexist. so yeah id hit her back after she hit me again i give her a warning.  she has plenty of time to move. even then it wouldn't be full forced it would be half assed jsut enopugh to let her know thigns might get real. if she still  doesn't  back down im  going to  pen her.

Shyguy_1988 · Answer

No, wasn't  brought up that way.  If she aggressively attacked me and wouldn't stop I'd just block her and eventually pin her until she was calm.  Don't think it would go that far though unless she was a very angry agressive girl, never ran into that issue.  I like when girls playfully hit though, its cute.

Kupacus · Answer

It's weak, to hit her back, just restrain, and go away.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a double standard that must end. It's not OK to for anyone to hit anyone first, period. The only way this hypocrisy is going to stop is if women realize they cannot continue hit men with immunity. The guy in the question you linked was in the right and she was in the wrong. I completely support him in what he did and she is the one who learned a lesson (or should have if she has a brain) and owes him an apology.

It's time to put an end to female hypocrisy. Women who think it's OK to hit men deserve to get hit right back.

CasaNorba · Answer

oh you best believe!

wtf! if she's not my mom than she better be ready to feel the pain. growing up, i was though by my own mom, aunts, and sisters that "if a woman can't handle strength of a man than she shouldn't be putting his hands on him in the first place"

Anonymous · Answer

If your a guy, then you should keep your hands to yourself. Or avoid that girl, move away, tone her down and yell to stop.
For myself, it depends how and where you hit me, either your being offensively physical then. But if your joking, ill just play back.

Anonymous · Answer

i would never sit around while a girl slaps or punches me. Maybe i'd try to dodge them. Otherwise she'd get it. look at the comments for this video.

Anonymous · Answer

I always believe in one thing, if someone steps on 1 of you toes you must step back on all 10 of their toes even harder.

All things in the bible are bullshit as is turn the other cheek.

A woman hits me, she is essentially telling she is strong enough to be hit back and I shall hit her as hard as possible. I will give her every chance to stop what she is doing but if she doesn't then I shall give it to her as hard as possible to teach her what her parents forgot to teach her.

Anonymous · Answer

As soon as she hits me it lets me know two things. 1 She doesn't respect me as a person. 2 She is letting it be know that she sees me as her physical equal and I will respond accordingly.
Accordingly would depend on the kind assault that was inflicted on me

kambo_trick3y · Answer

Does putting her in a choke hold until she passes out count as hitting? It gets the job done and doesn't leave any marks on her face.

AdamThomas · Answer

It depends. Only if I had to, as in I've told her to back up, pushed her off, tried everything else to get her to leave me alone. I'd be quicker to hit a guy than a girl.

Jbgurl20 · Answer

Well it isn't right to hit a girl back because a guy is usually stronger than a girl, so if you hit the girl she'll probably be in coma or something or she'll get bruises and she can go to the police and tell them that you abused her.

Anonymous · Answer

I live in north carolina too and I know that if hit a guy he would never hit me back. And if he did and I told my boyfriend or any one of my guy friends then he would get the beating of his life.

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