Guys would you hit a girl?

Question

Say she's in your face, pushing you, yelling, she even tries to smack you on the face, would you put your hands on her?but she's like a small petite, not a big girl.

MikeK · Accepted Answer

Yes - If only I was hit first though... You cannot mess with a bull and not expect to receive its horns lol...

But if she was significantly smaller, then I would just restrain her. Granted, I run across A LOT of women who weigh more than I do at 160 pounds (even though the National Board of Health still cites the average weight for a 6 foot adult male to be 140 through 180 pounds, there are MANY women who are pushing close to 200 pounds), so I would assess the potential damage she could create... but there's no way in Hell that I'm just gonna stand there and take it (like MANY candy-ass men do).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If she hit me in the face, I would warn her to never do it again. If she still hit me again, she would likely end up with a black eye, broken nose or worse.

I don't care how petite she is...if she's an adult and thinks she can hide behind her gender with me, she's wrong.

Tycho · Accepted Answer

Really, I would not blame the guy if he hit the girl. I think so many women have taken advantage of the fact that it's socially unacceptable for a guy to put their hands on a woman, but when they do it, they use themselves being a woman as excuse to justify their actions (Weaker/Vulnerable). Sure, if she's in your face you can easily walk away, but when she starts physically being violent with you, then hey, by all means be ready to defend yourself. The girl being small or big doesn't excuse abuse. Just as capable a guy is to avoid this type of physical altercation, a woman can as well.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

A guy should never hit a girl unless it's in self-defense.

Women need to realize they can't just attack men and expect the guy to sit there and take it, if a girl is actually hurting him then he has every right to defend himself. But other than that, no man should touch any woman in a violent way.

pickledxtofu · Accepted Answer

If a woman wants to act like a man and get in a mans face and touch him physically, then she deserves to get treated like a man.

I'll never understand why some chicks think it's OK to hit a man but the second he hits back he's in the wrong

Meedo · Answer

I voted yes.. and I am a traditional man who believes in chivalry... I will push her away .. restrain her.. but would avoid hitting her.. .. but really she is a total idiot if she thinks she can physically fight with a guy and not expect him to defend himself...  I am considerate . not a push over!

d-deso614 · Answer

I haven't done so in the past, And, I like to think that I wouldn't. But, it really depends on the situation. Being human, it's pretty likely hitting her would be a reaction if I felt she could seriously hurt me. However, as long as I'm in complete control of myself, I would avoid striking her.

jmr2191 · Answer

Um...hit a girl? I'm not sure I understand how this would be acceptable. Who has been telling you this kind of thing is okay?!

front2back · Answer

No, I don't believe it is okay to hit a woman, ever. I'm a pretty big guy, she wouldn't be able to do much. Now, if she is really on a rampage, I might restrain her by grabbing her wrist or elbow, but never physically hurt. Even if she had a gun or some other weapon, I would probably run instead of attacking her.

Anonymous · Answer

It's hard to really know what you'd do in that situation until you're in it. In my mind, I know that I'd never hit a girl, it was the way I was raised, and I hate guys that abuse girls, but sometimes you can't control your body when you're being attacked, sometimes you just goes into defence mode and you retaliate without thinking. I'd like to think that if I went into defense mode, I'd just grab her arm to stop her from hitting me, instead of striking her in turn, but there's no way I can know.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. If you want to act all tough and try to be in a man's place, that's cool.

That's part of the problem I think girls have. All the sh*t they do with no consequences. Any girl that thinks a guy shouldn't when he is the one being attacked is a piece of sh*t.

jwhit · Answer

Nope I'd just leave the scene before it escalates even more, not that I'd be tempted to hit her anyway. But I'm a non-confrontational kind of person anyway and I don't do things that make people want to be aggressive like that. Now if it's another guy, I won't hesitate.

kairon156 · Answer

hitting in self defence is okay no matter what the gender. I would do my best to calm her down or hold her back if I could but if that faild I would scream this woman is assulting me. if no one comes to help me than I would hit her.

Jonny_ · Answer

No, I got punched in the face by a girl in a club when she was persistently trying to get me to dance... I just said 'Er, No thanks I'm looking for someone' and walked off...

kheserthorpe · Answer

I voted yes.  Note that I'm nearly 38 and have never hit a woman. But I can imagine a scenario where I would.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I mean if he is repeatedly hitting you, then you should really restrain her so you don't get hurt yourself. But, the man should never hit (slap/punch/kick) her. Maybe throw some money or a new pair of shoes at her and she'll shut right up.

Janson · Answer

I would only use that kind of force on a woman if I felt my life was in danger

Anonymous · Answer

A petite girl no. I would put her on the floor until she calmed down. If it is not a petite girl than I would probably do the same but if I got hit in the jaw by surprise my natural instinct is to hit back so who knows. Some women like to hit like a man but expect nothing in return. I am not against the thinking that fight like a man then get hit like a man. Every situation has it's own reasoning and consequences.

shadowscapes · Answer

No, I don't hit women.   The only situation I would is if she is threatening me with a weapon, and that like ummm rarely or never happens.

Sekrett · Answer

No I wouldn't. But I will definitely take action like calling the cops, and sure as hell wouldn't have anything to do with her.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes gladly push you away. If your being a real bitch and need to get smacked you should of thought of that when women voted for equal rights.      Eye for an eye

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

She hits first and is a threat? Ya, I'll hit back. But be it guy or girl I won't hit first and I won't hit back if they aren't a threat.

Malcom_Reynolds · Answer

If a girl is actually trying to get physically violent with me, I'd probably grab her by the wrists to stop her.  If I can stop it before it goes anywhere then I'd much rather do that.

aMuse · Answer

I don't ever hit anyone until they hit me. It's a pretty simple rule... They can yell all they want, I'll probably yell back though.

Yellowsmurf · Answer

Gender means nothing to me as far as hitting goes, if she is actually meaning to hurt me I'm hitting her back. If it's just playfully or if she's just acting like she'd hit me I'll either stop her or ignore her.

sexyasianboi26 · Answer

I want to say no but knowing my past anger issues, I will probably slap her right in the mouth.

martyfellow · Answer

I'd smack her to defend myself, where she's well padded!  Plus that would embarrass her...

HungryJones · Answer

No, never. There's other ways to restrain her while she calms down, like hold her or something.

hotjames325 · Answer

id ould walk away I could never have the heart to hit a woman never

AlexAlexx · Answer

Small, petite girl? Then there's no need to hit her. I could just grab her and hold her still until she calms down or gets tired of fighting.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

how would her size make him react differently ? she's a woman no matter how tall she is.

Cookie1995 · Answer

No way. Guys hurting a girl is so wrong.

repetron · Answer

No, Unless she was going to stab me

Anonymous · Answer

There's a good chance of it happening. Don't hit somebody if you don't want to get hit back

tiredofwaiting · Answer

Only cowards do that.

theblondeguy · Answer

only if she's a butch lesbian or wants me too O.o

skinandbones · Answer

lmao, they hit back yo. TRUST.

WoIIie · Answer

I'd put my hands on her... for a back massage.

Anonymous · Answer

Chris Brown would.

Anonymous · Answer

Most guys wouldn't.

Anonymous · Answer

In self defense, yes

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