How do I get a guy to approach me without talking to him?

[Anonymous]

How do i get this guy to approach me WITHOUT having to talk/approach him first, if you don’t have any advice then please dont say anything i just want helpful comments.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some ways you can subtly encourage a guy to approach you without directly talking to him first:

• Make eye contact and smile. When you make eye contact with him, give a warm smile. Hold his gaze for a moment before looking away. This catches his attention in a friendly, non-threatening way.

• Watch for his reactions. Pay attention to how he responds when you make eye contact and smile. Does he smile back? Look away quickly? Maintain eye contact? His reactions will tell you if he's interested.

• Be in his vicinity. Arrange to be in areas he frequents - the same cafe, library, store, etc. Increase the chances you'll be around each other organically.

• Signal availability. Stand with an open posture facing his direction. Play with your hair. This subconsciously expresses that you're available and interested.

• Have things in common. Wear band merch, read books, listen to music that he likely enjoys. This gives you a chance to naturally strike up a convo if he approaches.

• Drop subtle hints. Leave a pen or other small item "by accident" near him. This gives him an excuse to approach you to return it.

• Avoid direct approaches. Let him come to you to maintain the "chase" and challenge. Men are wired to pursue, so make him work for it a little. ;)

The most effective ways are nonverbal - through your body language, smile and proximity. Just be present, open and subtly receptive. Leave the rest up to him. With enough signals and opportunities, he'll likely pluck up the courage to make a move. But you have to meet him halfway!

The key is to be poised, confident, attractive and available. He'll do the rest. Good luck! Let me know if you have any other questions.

[Arabianhorse]

First of all you dont just immediatly GET him , he is not an object same that you aren't an object so domt expect to get him right away tho THO you can give him signals that you intersted in him and iffff he want to kmow you or hit on you thats up to him , you can smile at him a devilsih smile or simple smile if you dont have this naughty smile , or simply cam act like shy each time your have eye contact with him you know small cute details like this attract a man but if he didn't respond to all those means or he really dumb which i doubt it or taken or simply not intersted

[Alli39]

I mean it kind of depends on your situation and the space in which you guys would interact. Is there a reason you can't just approach him first? Because the reason probably affects what you can do instead. (Though, realistically, there's nothing you can do that will force him to talk to you if he doesn't want to.)

[Asker]

Im in a situation where it would be SUPER embarassing if he didn't like me so i need to make sure that he is interested firstly

[Alli39]

I mean, you don't have to approach him in a sexual/romantic context immediately. You can just make friends with him first and get an understanding of his stance towards you. Guys tend to take the initiative anyway from a sociological perspective, so if you become a part of his life, he'll probably start something if he's interested. Otherwise, just assume he's not.

[gduffey83]

I really need to know why you don't want to speak to him in order to answer properly, if you are just insisting on him making the first move hmmm.. maybe invadehis space some and see what happens , if a woman touches me then I'm like that cartoon wolf where his tounge falls out of his mouth., Like brush your hiney on to his hand by bumping in to him or somthing , smile at him, wave at him , bend over in front of him, o my god i get excited thinking about that , come do it to me I'll Hollar at you lol

[Anonymous]

Well I’d say first of all you have to be “beautiful” in his eyes. If you’re not attractive to him he’s more than likely not going to approach you. That’s usually where it starts w men as far as getting to know a particular female. Even if you approached him first if he doesn’t find you visually appealing chances are he won’t be interested.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Notice how virtually everybody is saying don't play games and they won't respond to women doing that?

[Joshuabenitez]

Whistle at him. He will notice you are trying to get his attention.

[Asker]

Pls be realistic lol

[Yut3n]

Sorry but I agree with the others. If a girl is not showing any signs then I'm not gonna waste my time playing tag

[jahaims]

Magic isn't real. Go talk to him instead of following double standards that only benefit you.

[BarryLiverstone]

With non verbal signals

[Asker]

And what is that? Be more specific pls 🙏

[BarryLiverstone]

www.scienceofpeople.com/female-body-language/

[Asker]

Hmm u sent the wrong link cus it talks about how to read a female

[BarryLiverstone]

Right. Those are some signals women use

[B4851]

Wear something attractive.

[Asker]

Like?

[B4851]

Depends on the situation.

[In_Trance]

you don't. guys aren't mind readers

[Asker]

I said that u dont have to comment unneccesary stuff

[In_Trance]

It was super necessary. Your logic is irrational

[Pohjolan]

That really just leaves hand signs.

[Anonymous]

Add him on social media