Did my guy friend come onto me?

[Anonymous]

I was in my guy friend’s car recently. I am into him. I asked for him to touch my leggings to feel how soft they are. So he did, but it was more than just a two stroke brush of the fabric people typically do to gauge the softness of something. This was more of a long caressing of the top of my thigh. I have no idea exactly how long this went on for as time froze, but it was long enough for me to wonder if his hand was gonna roam to other places, which it did not. Was this an advance? I mean, I asked him to touch the leggings and he did. I just wasn’t expecting That much of a touch. Also, maybe important detail, he had a few drinks at this point, but wasn’t obviously drunk or anything. Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Could be. Maybe not. I mean if I like the feel of something I’m more than likely going to feel it a little longer than usual. Couldn’t really say.

[Anonymous]

It's possible that your guy friend was trying to make a subtle advance, especially given the prolonged and more intimate touch when you asked him to feel your leggings. Alcohol may have also influenced his behavior. If you're interested in exploring a romantic relationship with him, it could be a good idea to have an open and honest conversation about your feelings and the situation to clarify his intentions and see where things go from there. Communication is key in situations like this.

[Avicenna]

yeah

[Anonymous]

How would we know?

[Asker]

I mean obviously he is the only one who knows the answer to this; just trying to hear a best guess from others… Just trying to figure out if I’m overanalyzing something that may not actually need a discussion with him.

[Anonymous]

We don’t know