Is first sight actually real?

[Monalisa77]

Is it normal to really like someone at first sight? When you barely know them?

Yes

No

Updates

5 mo

I never mentioned love

[OlderAndWiser]

If you have just met someone, you don't know anything about them, but you like them. . . what is it that you like? Probably. . . their appearance. That is called lust at first sight, and it is a common experience.

[Monalisa77]

Yeah their mannersims n how they act towards me

[NathanDavis]

to like someone? of course...

you can absolutely like and like it a lot, their looks, their apparent personality, their vibes, their style and what not...

love at first sight? I call it infatuation... which can very well turn into actual love, later on... once you know them better and do "confirm" that it was meant to be

[Monalisa77]

I do keep getting the vibes of how quickly i like someone is because of my lack of experience

[NathanDavis]

what do you like about them? to be precise...

[Monalisa77]

Currently I've only known this guy a short time but i liked him cos he's cute looking n he appeared really nice who likes to help people n was really nice to me and spoke to me without me saying anything first which not a lot of people do, even after me seeming like i wasn't interested /moaning he still seeemed to notice me a lot of times i feel like im not there to people

[Monalisa77]

But sometimes i feel the chemistry is quite strong with a vibe/tension and so it elads me to thinking about them a lot

[NathanDavis]

is this happening at work, or a neighbour?

[Monalisa77]

Cards night s and sort of cousins of cousins. But i sent a message n he didn't reply, its just taking time to move on

[NathanDavis]

I agree, yes... I think it's just best to move on

[Monalisa77]

Its just difficult and confusing, he seemed to reslly like me and there was no angst (well i didn't respond to his actions but still) and i dont have a lot of chances of finding someone so there's always doubts

[NathanDavis]

whatever it seems to us... it can be mere assumptions and ideas

but actions are more precise... if he is not responding, then he's just not as interested as you are

[Monalisa77]

He was inches from me tho n was staring down at me, that was the only thing that made me interested. He stroked my hand literally out of nowhere. He could at least say thabks for the message even if he isn't interested, i didn't suggest anything in the message at all, just a basic hi. We at least got on and as i said no angsty

[NathanDavis]

but he won't...

so it is best to just move on

[Monalisa77]

Everyone i spoke to said how nice he is and i ssked 2 people who kbow him if its ok to message n they said it was fine. He is single #o its not like hed be cheating or anything. He doesn't use social media at all so i wondered if he even uses whatsapp despite being in the group

[Monalisa77]

Just dont get y someone would show that much interest to not even reply a basic message, he knew i was vulnerable too so its not a nice thing to do

[Monalisa77]

+that he's a dr, u'd think he wouldn't behave like that with someone vulnerable

[Beckybooboo]

I was attracted to my boyfriend the first time I saw him. Physically, he was my type. Once I got to know him, which was a slow process, I fell for him pretty hard. 😊

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not. At most, it is lust at first sight.

[Monalisa77]

Well i never mentioned love

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say it’s love at first sight as for me I think it’s lust at first sight.

[slatyb]

Maybe not "at first sight" but after a few minutes of conversation? Sure.

[ProbablyClueless]

That's a real thing for sure, but I wouldn't say it's normal.

[exitseven]

I met my wife and thought she had the prettiest smile I ever saw

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yes, definitely. It happened to me.

[Frank_90]

To like someone yeah, but to love them no

[Kyr0s]

I don't think so. You may feel lust but not love

[strateguy632]

2nd.,

[bededazzle]

like yes; love no

[Socaljp]

It's called lusting