How often do you get hit on at work/college?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

At college never. But at work sometimes by mostly gay boys and sometimes by a girl. I'm a hetrosexual guy myself, but for some reason I apearently attract gay boys who then want to flirt with me or get me in bed with them.

With that girl it was only her flirting with me and a friend of hers trying to set us up for a date.
But its always the same with the gay boys, they first add/friendrequest me on social media, then try to get my number (sometimes they already have it due to work-chats like whatsapp groups) and flirt in the store (my workplace) itself. One guy even went that far by adding me, 2 years after he quit the job, to flirt with me and wanting pictures of me.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

at college... first weeks, months, it would happen from time to time since I was new... and then a few more times, when new students came in...

and then a lot less because pretty much "everyone" knew about me, and my girlfriend...

at work, no... I work with dudes only and none of them into guys either, lol

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

Thankfully not much when I am on campus. I don't live on campus so that prob has a lot to do with it. For me it is drive to campus and go to class and then home. I do have a long break in between classes that I just grab something to eat but I pretty much just talk to some friends and that's it. At work? All the damn time. That is a product of the liquid courage everyone is consuming. The later it gets... the worse it gets. I am so used to it by now that it doesn't even phase me. Sometimes it is actually good entertainment. The creative ways some of the guys go about it is amusing.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

The first semester was terrible :D I studied computer science and there were only 4 women including me, and 116 guys...

After 1st semester it was better, I had a few guys I was closer with, we did labors and projects together and they somehow shielded me. We were just friends, but I remember those years very good.

Avicenna · Answer

It happens every now and then

7Phoenix7 · Answer

To be honest, I did get "hit on" at my job multiple times. Sometimes in a direct way, sometimes indirectly. I always just play cool and stay as professional as possible

FriendlyCanadianGuy · Answer

Worked at a restaurant and it was constant - Lots of numbers but not one led to anything.
College was a lot in the first year. Dropped until my third year when I started going to clubs and parties.
Outside of the party scene I was invisible, would only hear that a girl liked me months later when they had new boyfriends

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Not much anymore... because I quit doing all that bullshit. Drop out of the rat race!

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

Eh I've only been catcalled like once or twice (never see it happening in public to anybody) and no guys in my area really go up to people to show their interest. My friends have hit on guys before though haha

mandyfire98 · Answer

I have a couple of times at work. A lot when I was in college.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

I work alone, so I'm pretty sure I don't get flirted with at all. I just have to wait until I get home :-)

tiff_tiff · Answer

Not that much at school, but I did when I worked as a waitress.

rachel776b · Answer

at work it's not allowed and anywhere else it's all the time

Thestupidusername · Answer

Sometimes but its rare.. and will never let it go anywhere

genericname85 · Answer

Honestly I'm kind of oblivious about these things. I don't have that on my mind I'm the professional world.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

A couple times. Only one of them I was fully aware of what's going on and I was already taken.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Pretty often but it’s ok because I get a lot of gifts for the holidays

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do from clients at work sometimes, which is why I have dated some female attorneys.

Likes2drive · Answer

Never happens to me even when I was younger

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Never, thankfully. Since I rarely ever encounter females at work.

Nikki1989 · Answer

2, maybe 3 times a week.

MissBoogus · Answer

I feel like it’s a daily thing

exitseven · Answer

Never. I am too old for that.

Pohjolan · Answer

Gals do approach me but never got hit on.

electromagnetic · Answer

Never.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

LITERALLY NEVER

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Never.

Anonymous · Answer

Never :(

Anonymous · Answer

Never been hit on

PinkSmoke · Answer

Everyday

BaronReagan · Answer

Never.

trellbrown84 · Answer

never. im too ugly

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