How often do you get hit on?

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Kimochi · Accepted Answer

i think once, when i was 16-17. i was never really kinda guy who is social or read people very well, quiet kid. we were hanging out at the beach with mostly people from same school, having fun time and bout to go home and this girl coming up to me like '' you going home? '' and she was like hovering over me while i pack my stuff, asking what im doing next, and she kinda persuade on inviting herself or trying to make me ask her to go with me. and i kinda just told her i had to go home and eat dinner, hop on my bike and left. thinking back i just realize what was going on back than. being dense is an understatment. i really drop the ball on that one

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Back in HS, I used to get hit on every now and then. People used to consider me intimating so I rarely got approached (maybe 4-5 times). But many girls were obvious but indirect.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Way too often for comfort.

Unfortunately, nowadays many girls are not safe anymore from those pervs and harassers that take every single opportunity to hit on girls, whether they know them or not.

As soon as they are 13+, they become automatically a prey and target for assaults by guys that just cannot keep their hormones under control.

Unfortunately, I get molested at least once a day, regardless how inconspicuous or unattractive I make myself. Some guys just don't know the limit of decency.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not very often, but at the same time, I'm not great at picking up on it. I don't usually notice it unless it's very forward. Most times I've been told a guy was flirting with me, I just thought he was being nice and didn't notice it.

Harmseygrace · Accepted Answer

A little bit. Like these stupid guys trying to get me to come to them by harassing me to let them pat my dog in an annoying Irish accent saying ‘love can I pet your dog’. 😂

jennifer_bloom · Answer

i'm attractive but most 30 year olds are in relationships.

Bigfappa · Answer

hmmm... debrohah... 1... rio... 2... that girl who touched my leg in taxi.. 3
... weird ugly girl from high school... 4... hot girl from high school...5...
recently 5 months ago coming out of my apartment... 6

so 6 times in 21 years... 1 or 2 girls also smiled at me in college but dunno if that counts

Knighted2170 · Answer

Quite a bit. I don’t really count though.
I only take notice that I’m being hit on when they start touching my arm or shoulder. Other than that, I count it as a conversation.

I have a lot of women start conversations with me. Some I don’t find to be my type. But, midway through, when they start getting closer, and then touching, I count that as a clear sign they are hitting on me.

Passinggas · Answer

Most of it is just attention seeking so I don't count that. I have been picked up usually once a weekend when I was going out at the bar near campus. But now it is about once a month-to 6weeks. I havn't been going out as much because I have a girlfriend that has been occupying my weekends more.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Depends on the atmosphere. At the grocery store? Never! But if i'm oit with friends ( all are couples, at a concert or what have you i get hit on like every other time. I think it's just obvious that i'm single. I don't know maybe i have that look of desperation or something. Lol

ChurchOfIron · Answer

It's pretty rare that women actively "hit on" guys, I think. The woman's *version* of hitting on me, that happens like, oh, I dunno, once every couple weeks or so, depending on whether I'm out and about or not. More sometimes, less other times.

MusicMayhem · Answer

If I go out to bars/clubs regularly it happens sometimes, albeit usually by drunk, desperate girls or only if I'm in the zone. Otherwise I think it's only happened once when I was 15 in my tennis class.

Bluemax · Answer

Actual footage of me leaving my house...

Bmories99 · Answer

Like I tell my wife, all the time and some are even women.

gorman24 · Answer

When I go out to the bar. That isn't too often. A few times at the grocery store. And twice at the gym.

ColoradoKid · Answer

I don't. My friends that are female say I am good looking. You may think that just because they are my friends that they feel obligated to say that. They don't. They are true friends that will tell me what they think even if it hurts me.

CaffeinatedCactus · Answer

Haha in person? I'd say never. I mean I could probably count on one hand the encounters I can recall in my entire life. But online, lots. It's easy when you dont have to approach someone in person 🤷‍♀️

SirRexington · Answer

Literally never. I can't even think of the last time.

Boppy · Answer

There's one time I think I may have been getting hit on back in high school. Besides that, I haven't been hit on at all.

Lauren-green · Answer

Online? A lot (because guys can hide behind their screens and have no self control and more confidence). In person, less so, but still quite often

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

In high school and during my first years of Uni. I got hit on often. Nowadays not so much, but I've put on a very intimidating image in public so it's intentional.

Emmy_98 · Answer

Never 😢 and I like to think that I’m pretty, but I tend to have resting bitch face so I worry that I scare people off

lightbulb27 · Answer

Sometimes in terms, I see I piq their interest. not often though and usually I have to step out for response.

AlienParasite · Answer

Rarely. I think I can count all the times I've been hit on with both hands and would have fingers I don't really need to use.

dpg91 · Answer

I get some glances and the odd nice comment but as for being undoubtedly hit on by someone who’s interested in me? Almost never.

Sensmind · Answer

Very rarely these days (LoL) but even in the day I was so oblivious I often didn't notice until someone said it afterwards

Mir95 · Answer

In all these years of existence I've been hit on by 1 girl and 2 others mildly flirted me. I only liked one of them.

HOAAH · Answer

When i was single and dating... it was a lot. Now, it is like 5-10x a year.

smokink · Answer

Barely ever. Sometimes a holla or they say I'm beautiful. I do appreciate the less dramatic approach as a women though.

Brookie1212 · Answer

I’ve really only ever been blatantly and utterly hit on (like cat called) about twice but occasionally my friends will catch a few people glancing without my knowledge

tmiranda08 · Answer

Rarely. The last time I got hit on was from a drunk customer at my job lol.

elissa23Trans · Answer

Quite often but I know that that doesn’t say anything because they don’t have the entire picture.

Prof_Don · Answer

Women smile and give me “the look” more since I’ve been in my 30s. I say probably about 1x on average a week that I notice.

GhostMochi · Answer

I don't know, I guess not that often. I don't really pay attention to that stuff.

Daniel3035 · Answer

I never get hit on but I get eyes on me all the time always a shop or anywhere the girls glance at me in the corner of their eye.

Xyline789 · Answer

I used to but now I just am never around enough women for that to happen. I work a lot currently, I'm introverted, and I'm not a partier so it's difficult to meet women.

Anonymous · Answer

From a guy showing genuine interest in me? Never. Catcalled and such? Depends on the location and how much I go out.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Never. Girls don't know a good thing when it's staring them in the face!!

Liam_Hayden · Answer

A few times per month on average, skewed by the summer months when the girls on the beach realize my house is right there.

crazy8000 · Answer

Apart of the roommate. little now and then without counting the attention seekers that usually hangs out at the gym.

Tacty-wagged-death6 · Answer

Nope. Too fat. Haha 5'6" 197 lbs. 34 and halfway bald.

mefink31 · Answer

too often usually by older gay men that can't even get it up no more lol

xyz94 · Answer

On average a few times a week. I live in a busy city.

sheepdip · Answer

Less than I'd like but probably more than I realise

genericname85 · Answer

maybe once a decade. at least those are the times i notice, i guess.

iFarted · Answer

These days 3-5 times a week. Its always when im at work during breaks at this one jobsite.. and its usually foreigners or ladies from other states.

Anonymous · Answer

Almost everyday. I dont know why I have such guy troubles 😒

AcidT0y · Answer

Not that often. More now than I did when I was single though.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

A lot lately, not positive why other than getting a really good tan

Anonymous · Answer

Never :( lol. And if I have been, it's been too subtle and didn't realize it maybe?

Anonymous · Answer

Quite a bit online, but pretty much never in real life.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a man, never... OK I lie it happened 4 times in my life, last time probably 10 years ago and yes all of them were women and not ugly or fat.

Hot_Soccer_Mom · Answer

all the time even now that I am pregnant

kate52 · Answer

too often. and its usually by sleazy guys or old men. its not funny and it never will be

Anonymous · Answer

I get glances, guys stare yet.. hit on.. I can count the times. :(

mathewjolly1178 · Answer

Often but want to meet someone I can grow old with and annoy lol x

Nonbinary · Answer

Life hits me every day

LegendarySir · Answer

Not often, only when I go clubbing.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol not very often but then I’m completely oblivious to when women are checking me out so maybe I miss it

naijagurl · Answer

Pretty often these days.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Never...

Il0ve29 · Answer

Often but not as often in person

serious · Answer

I don't and I don't care about that.

Hurlyburly · Answer

Online a lot, in person almost never.

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