How often do you get hit on?

[Anonymous]

How often do you get hit on?

[Kimochi]

i think once, when i was 16-17. i was never really kinda guy who is social or read people very well, quiet kid. we were hanging out at the beach with mostly people from same school, having fun time and bout to go home and this girl coming up to me like '' you going home? '' and she was like hovering over me while i pack my stuff, asking what im doing next, and she kinda persuade on inviting herself or trying to make me ask her to go with me. and i kinda just told her i had to go home and eat dinner, hop on my bike and left. thinking back i just realize what was going on back than. being dense is an understatment. i really drop the ball on that one

[Anonymous]

Back in HS, I used to get hit on every now and then. People used to consider me intimating so I rarely got approached (maybe 4-5 times). But many girls were obvious but indirect.

[Nonbinary]

What would you say made you intimidating?

[Opinion Owner]

@Nonbinary expressions, way of talking, the way I carried myself

[SueShe]

Way too often for comfort.

Unfortunately, nowadays many girls are not safe anymore from those pervs and harassers that take every single opportunity to hit on girls, whether they know them or not.

As soon as they are 13+, they become automatically a prey and target for assaults by guys that just cannot keep their hormones under control.

Unfortunately, I get molested at least once a day, regardless how inconspicuous or unattractive I make myself. Some guys just don't know the limit of decency.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Molested?

[ChurchOfIron]

@ThisIsMyOpinion She's a misandrist, don't stress about her. No changing her. She really hates men.

[Boppy]

Do you think it depends on your location? I've heard of people complaining about getting lots of creepy people approaching. Two of them lived in Cali. and one lived in South Africa. It may be a local culture thing.

[GhostMochi]

Actually, young girls are prey to pedophiles and molesters even before they hit 13+. And men aren't the only people out here who are pedophiles and molesters. Women can be them too you know.

[Boppy]

@GhostMochi I like your name. It put wonderful images in my mind.

On a darker note.. by my understanding, some number of sexual abusers are people who were abused growing up and do it to get a temporary feeling of control in their lives. For them, I think that attraction (including genders of the perpetrator and victim) may be less important to them than the desire for cruelty.

[Anonymous]

Not very often, but at the same time, I'm not great at picking up on it. I don't usually notice it unless it's very forward. Most times I've been told a guy was flirting with me, I just thought he was being nice and didn't notice it.

[Harmseygrace]

A little bit. Like these stupid guys trying to get me to come to them by harassing me to let them pat my dog in an annoying Irish accent saying ‘love can I pet your dog’. 😂

[jennifer_bloom]

i'm attractive but most 30 year olds are in relationships.

[nani71722]

Look for someone younger more like 26 year old😝

[TheIceManCometh]

@Jennifer_bloom a lot of people are not in relationships probably more are not these days

[Guardian45]

Hello😊

[Bigfappa]

hmmm... debrohah... 1... rio... 2... that girl who touched my leg in taxi.. 3
... weird ugly girl from high school... 4... hot girl from high school...5...
recently 5 months ago coming out of my apartment... 6

so 6 times in 21 years... 1 or 2 girls also smiled at me in college but dunno if that counts

[Bigfappa]

i jus dont really give anyone a chance to hit on me because i never leave my apartment,
i only leave to go food shopping or job centre, and how likely is it il get hit on there?
not likely... surprisingly tho a girl hit on me while coming out of my apartment a few months ago...

[Knighted2170]

Quite a bit. I don’t really count though.
I only take notice that I’m being hit on when they start touching my arm or shoulder. Other than that, I count it as a conversation.

I have a lot of women start conversations with me. Some I don’t find to be my type. But, midway through, when they start getting closer, and then touching, I count that as a clear sign they are hitting on me.

[Passinggas]

Most of it is just attention seeking so I don't count that. I have been picked up usually once a weekend when I was going out at the bar near campus. But now it is about once a month-to 6weeks. I havn't been going out as much because I have a girlfriend that has been occupying my weekends more.

[ChiTown33]

Depends on the atmosphere. At the grocery store? Never! But if i'm oit with friends ( all are couples, at a concert or what have you i get hit on like every other time. I think it's just obvious that i'm single. I don't know maybe i have that look of desperation or something. Lol

[ChurchOfIron]

It's pretty rare that women actively "hit on" guys, I think. The woman's *version* of hitting on me, that happens like, oh, I dunno, once every couple weeks or so, depending on whether I'm out and about or not. More sometimes, less other times.

[MusicMayhem]

If I go out to bars/clubs regularly it happens sometimes, albeit usually by drunk, desperate girls or only if I'm in the zone. Otherwise I think it's only happened once when I was 15 in my tennis class.

[Bluemax]

Actual footage of me leaving my house...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOcYTOBA0CI

[Guardian45]

LOL!

[Bmories99]

Like I tell my wife, all the time and some are even women.

[gorman24]

When I go out to the bar. That isn't too often. A few times at the grocery store. And twice at the gym.

[ColoradoKid]

I don't. My friends that are female say I am good looking. You may think that just because they are my friends that they feel obligated to say that. They don't. They are true friends that will tell me what they think even if it hurts me.

[CaffeinatedCactus]

Haha in person? I'd say never. I mean I could probably count on one hand the encounters I can recall in my entire life. But online, lots. It's easy when you dont have to approach someone in person 🤷‍♀️

[SirRexington]

Literally never. I can't even think of the last time.

[Boppy]

There's one time I think I may have been getting hit on back in high school. Besides that, I haven't been hit on at all.

[MrOracle]

[Lauren-green]

Online? A lot (because guys can hide behind their screens and have no self control and more confidence). In person, less so, but still quite often

[Guardian45]

It person, a guy might be intimidated by you and fearful of rejection.

[Guardian45]

In**

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

In high school and during my first years of Uni. I got hit on often. Nowadays not so much, but I've put on a very intimidating image in public so it's intentional.

[Emmy_98]

Never 😢 and I like to think that I’m pretty, but I tend to have resting bitch face so I worry that I scare people off

[lightbulb27]

Sometimes in terms, I see I piq their interest. not often though and usually I have to step out for response.

[AlienParasite]

Rarely. I think I can count all the times I've been hit on with both hands and would have fingers I don't really need to use.