How often do you guys get hit on?

Question

Do you think there's a correlation to your attractiveness and how often you get hit on?

Jmd0392 · Accepted Answer

Yeah I think there's definitely a correlation to how often you get hit on based on your physical appearance. The first thing people look at is your physical appearance. Your clothing makes a big impact on what they think about you. Physical beauty does as well, people can't see your personality, they can see your physical traits though. However, even the most beautiful men/women appear ugly to me if they have a downright awful personality (by this i mean rude, condescending, etc). A lot of it's also how you carry yourself. Confidence can do a lot for you. I'm no brad pitt, but I don't have any lack of ladies hitting on me b/c I'm well groomed, pretty nice looking, good personality, etc.

Bob5555 · Accepted Answer

Never. I've had girls flirt with me and show a lot of interest but I've never had a girl literally come up and initiate things from the get go. For girls there's definitely a correlation but not for guys. For guys it's more about how much women flirt and try to talk to you.

hannahmarsx · Accepted Answer

Whenever I go out I guess? I go to like 2 parties a month and I'm bound to on at least one of those parties, or both. Or when I'm walking through city center with my girlfriends we get shouted at. I was hit on last night actually but he didn't accept my friend Facebook request since :( haha

existing_not_living · Accepted Answer

Everyday. A couple of my friends think that my one guy friend likes me. I don't think so though. My mom thinks a different guy friend likes me. I don't think so either. I get hit on by both of them, but I think it's just them being teenage guys. Yes there is definitely a correlation.

been_waiting · Accepted Answer

Occasionally.  A guy just asked for my number like an hour ago.  This year I think three guys have. Unfortunately I'm never attracted to them mentally or physically

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not very often, I don't have time for that. I've had guys hit on my at my school but they just do it because they know how I'll react to it. I just keep on walking.

Theguyoverthere · Answer

Barely ever. When I was super skinny no one looked at me. When I got in shape I get glances but the girls are too scared to make moves. If I've talked with anyone there's a chance they'll ask me to meet up but it's super rare. I do hear some girls are very outgoing but there's not enough of those type out there. Most girls would rather have everything handed to them and not have to gain the courage to make a move. They always give the "it's desperate" excuse which really just translates to "I'm just too scared."

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

Of course there's a correlation to attractiveness, there's also a correlation with where you are, who you're with and who's looking at you. But for the most part guys measure the frequency of getting hit on by girls in years or lifetimes. Lol

I think one older woman may have hit it on me one time... maybe.
Maybe she was just being nice, I don't know.

It kinda sucks, but when I see things like this and realise again how frequently girls get attention then I feel really shitty about it, like trash. Sadface.

mistninja314 · Answer

Yes there is and I get hit on once every 7 years it seems ><

Applefan1 · Answer

Well a girl caught me checking her ass out yesterday. it was her reaction to me checking her ass out I loved. She moved her body on purpose so her ass was in direct line of sight for me. She decided to give me a better view lol. Please don't judge me as I was ok with this and so was she.

Mad_Batman · Answer

there is a correlation, but other factors are included as well as physical attractiveness,
I dont get hit on a lot because i am a serious guy who doesn't allow for playing... i am sure if i let up i could get some real flirting going though..
hope that helps

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not a very outgoing person but I'm trying to change... sometimes girls hit on me I think but their purpose was only one time quiet clear. The other times they were giggling and I'm still not sure if they found me attractive or if they just wanted to make fun of my shyness

potsticker · Answer

I've never been hit on the truest sense of the words but girls have expressed interest to me before usually in subtle ways. Hell, maybe I'm just thinking they like me in my head when they actually don't.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Rarely, but then again, girls rarely hit on guys, they usually just smile and/or stare, and this I get often, almost every day I go out.

xPoison · Answer

Often. I tend to smile, and say ty, and keep it moving. If they're talking the dirty talk, I ignore and walk away.

Thrifty · Answer

Honestly, I do by older women when they are in a group of friends and then her friends call her a cougar and she 'roars' at me.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys rarely get hit on, at least outright--a girl will attempt to let a guy know she likes him with subtle signals that rarely get noticed, and she will rarely actually say something to the guy.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

i get hit on... by gay guys and older ladies... its so uncomfortable

Niere · Answer

Uhh not that much; getting smiles or stares, pretty often.

HikerDude · Answer

There is a correlation, but the problem is being able to tell when a girl is flirting and when she's just being nice

KHaskins · Answer

By someone I'm not already in a relationship with? Never, to my recollection.

Ped1981 · Answer

Let's put it this way. If the human race depended on women we'd never have made it out of the caves

JSmuve · Answer

I hit on myself every time I pass a mirror, cuz, hey, someone has to.

aegis_penguin · Answer

I only got hit on twice in elementary school. It hasn't happened ever since then. =(

Anonymous · Answer

Hmm. Never. Not once.  Although i asked a rate-me question on here and got rated mostly 7 and 8, so I don't know why women don't hit on me

Despondency · Answer

The last time I got hit on I was in a previous life.

tyber1 · Answer

Almost never and people tell me I'm above average looking.

Luvme66 · Answer

Most of the time... I don't know y? But as far as i know I am so better in behavioral science!

Anonymous · Answer

Too shy to even notice if I've ever been hit on. I get an odd look for guys here and there.

jwhit · Answer

Oh yeah there's definitely a correlation which is precisely why I never get hit on lol.

pezzonovante88 · Answer

I think there is a correlation and I don't think I ever get hit on.

Michael_Rc46 · Answer

Maybe once a week I don't know... I'm about average looking

Roadcruiser1 · Answer

Not very often, and when I do people just stop halfway.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't think of a single time any girl has hit on me.

Anonymous · Answer

My best guy friend said that he never gets hit on, or at least not as much as girls.

cjmtherfcker · Answer

I'm averaging about once a decade

HollywoodGlam · Answer

I almost never get hit on.

emerald77 · Answer

Way too often, and I hate it.

Ihav2fart · Answer

After high school never. :(

WitchKing · Answer

Pretty often. Its flattering but kinda annoying.

Anonymous · Answer

What does "get hit on" mean?

bananatossing · Answer

Guys get flirted on not hit on I think

hypno-trip · Answer

once every few years.

Anonymous · Answer

Every day. I got it like that. Lol jk.

YoungManInfamus2 · Answer

I've never been hit on in my life :(

2014raser · Answer

It doesn't happen very much.

Anonymous · Answer

Actually, much much more than you would think.

ncannon18 · Answer

The day after never.

Random_chick_2384 · Answer

Only few times IRL

Ryosanada · Answer

Never, and yes.

NoMoreDreams · Answer

Almost never

soccerchick4eva · Answer

pretty often...

reptocarl · Answer

Almost never

KiaTate · Answer

a few times at work.

ParkAvenuePrincess · Answer

All the time

wolflover17 · Answer

ummmm let me think 0

Rogue2 · Answer

Never. Ever. Ever.

medical2523 · Answer

I never get hit on

jmmmfi · Answer

Absolutely never

Anonymous · Answer

Never :(((

lilglen · Answer

I don't get hit on

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