Do you like flirting online?

Question

I want to hang out online with the comfort and confidence of not being able to meet face to face.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

The definition of the word "flirting" is as follows:

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

Now, we all know what "a deeper relationship" means, right?

I am not interested in fornicating and thus, I do not flirt, whether in real life or online. I don't want to give the wrong impression to people I don't know.

Why have an ill reputation that is so easy to misunderstand. You only give yourself a bad reputation and I am not interested in getting one of a person of low morale and that has no self-esteem and dignity.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

No I never flirted online and was never on a dating site. You can never know what kind of creep you are flirting with and who knows "he weazel's information from you, finding your personal information" and the next thing you know his hand covers your mouth as he tears your clothes off rapes you several times and you never hear from him again.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Long ago. About 12 years now. I was a 14 year old kid with too much access to the internet.
I used to go on forum sites and chat up strangers and with some we would flirt. I didn't think too much of it but I actually got pretty good through trial and error.

So when I turned 22 and moved out of my parents house I got into dating apps and had decent success with it.

But now I find it too tedious to flirt with a person that I would never meet because there are things you can only experience in person (and no not just sex) but it's far too safe to keep it digital and it gets boring

SeymourBill420 · Accepted Answer

Well, then it sounds like you're wasting people's time out online. People just don't want to flirt and be boring online. It's okay to flirt and tease, but you definitely got to be more of a please and a tease. It's okay to be a tease. But you definitely got to be better at pleasing than teasing. Because, there's no point in teasing if you're not going to please. So, if you're just going to do the wasteless flirting, and just get somebody horny, and not do anything about it, then you're pretty useless

mandyfire98 · Answer

What is this flirting you speak of?  I don't have the skill for it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

When I was using online dating sites, my MO was to spend just enough time DMing to make sure she wasn't totally weird, then give her my phone number and ask her to call me (a real voice-to-voice phone call,) and after a few calls, to arrange a face-to-face meeting. Anything slower or less than that is wasting time, being dishonest, or both.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

No, I find it pointless, I also can’t seem to do well when I don’t see their face.  I am better in person.

HawkPerception · Answer

It seems to be the only way I interact with girls these days, so yeah. It is fun and helps me socialize a little lol

Avicenna · Answer

I'm sure there will be plenty of guys happy to flirt with you...

AviatorTom · Answer

Okay, have fun... enjoy!

YesterdaysChild · Answer

You can't do that without flirting? Or are you flirting because you think it will actually get results? Lots of "taken" people like flirting too, just for the fun of it if nothing else. But I'm sure a lot would not turn down some side action. 😝

smne35 · Answer

Not unless I know exactly who it is I'm flirting with, these days you never know if it's a dude or a woman behind that other keyboard, but yeah when I'm in the mood and want y to have company for that evening will initiate it and there you go, rarely with strangers online,

itsannalee · Answer

I don’t really like to waste my time.
When i use dating app, usually i will arrange to meet up after few days matched and talking.

If someone just keep teasing online, i will block him😬😬

I met my boyfriend in the dating app, and we met up after a week talking.

KinkyKittycat · Answer

It’s fun until it’s not lmao. I am extremely guilty of doing it even when i’m not even trying and i tend to get myself in some unfortunate situations because of it. Will i stop anytime soon though? no.. 💗

Nik1hil · Answer

Hmmm... i am open to the idea..

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But Audio is essential, We use one of those virtual meeting platforms (zoom, Skype) or Discord etc.

We jibber jabber, pointlessly. No expectations or goals. Just communication and companionship! I can indeed use someone when I am writing stuff!.

ColHathi · Answer

I don't  not  like it, but I'm not interested in trying to find people to flirt with either. It happens if it happens. I think if I were to try to find girls to flirt with, it would be out of a hope of getting something more out of it. Some kind of relationship.

Beckybooboo · Answer

I don’t mind it but I don’t know anyone here well enough to flirt with. Lol Just one guy but he’s more like an annoying brother, so that would be awkward.

mstbooblover · Answer

Flirting online seems rather pointless to me, and ultimately frustrating, although having a little naughty chat with someone online may sometimes be nice. Things online only stick to virtual, and I'm looking for something real.

Gochogirl · Answer

Not really, it gets boring when you end up waiting 30 minutes or a whole night for a response to your cutie little lines. I'll talk about my sex life all day but I'm just out of it with flirting now.

serious · Answer

Absolutely not. No. Believe it or not I never flirt and I see flirting as something cheap and inappropriate.

TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff · Answer

People hide behind the anonymity of the online platform. I don't think flirting online is entirely genuine. I think the real connection starts face-to-face or at least talking over the phone.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Nope.  What for?  It's fruitless.

menina · Answer

I used to, but not anymore. I wish I could flirt in person, but that's almost impossible for me.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

I think if I were single and seeking companionship, and it started online, I would prefer to eventually meet in person if I felt safe.

ohmyguy · Answer

Yes but with the intention of getting to know some one in person by meeting one on one face to face..

I d rather not carry on and on with some one who has no intention of persueing things further than flirting...

IrishStewed · Answer

Not particularly as there is no reward in the end.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes because you can get turned on for a few minutes or a few hours and have it be one time or ongoing and not have to worry about it like a person in real life.

strateguy632 · Answer

i do not because i prefer meeting in person i. r. l.

creedingmore · Answer

Flirting online is really fun! It’s safe and it doesn’t require a whole lot of commitment haha

molonski2 · Answer

Id never bother with that , especially with the thought it was simply NEVER going to happen for real , seems pretty silly and bogus.

robhazelnut · Answer

I'm game and would prefer to respect boundaries. I invite you to DM, and also accept flirting right here with that classy avatar you chose.

Dr_CEI · Answer

I absolutely love flirting and sharing dirty secrets and kinks online with complete anonymity and freedom. Harms no one

love_conquers_lust · Answer

For a little bit. But when online texting turns into a romance novel dispenser, it gets annoying. It should be supplemental. Face to face should be the mainstay.

systemsareyo · Answer

To a degree, that's probably me and GAG lol 😂 isn't everyone here for some reason just like dating apps: to pass the boredom in a safe and sensible and adult manner, like a mature adult.

Kreneman · Answer

Yes because it's fun and it helps to be more confident to convince the one that I am attracted to.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, but only when we both are on the same page; knowing what level or intensity or heat of flirting there is. Otherwise confusing and one side feels left out and mistreated.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Don't see the purpose people flirt i just reply because i am too polite

linka_pat307 · Answer

It's fun even only the two of you are sure and comfortable with it

loveslongnails · Answer

Hmm... flirting online is kind of like taking a shower with your clothes on, but I'm just naturally flirtatious anyway. haha

Alex-Snow · Answer

I like it and it is a good build up to gaining trust or even talking about sex. Sometimes it is an instant boner for me!

MysticDevice · Answer

Here and there. Once in a while.  I used to do it a fairly often but really not so much anymore.

stratford · Answer

I love flirting online, and love the frustration of not being in the same room when things get steamy!

jarkitor20 · Answer

It can be fun to flirt online just like it's nice to only know some friends online You can tell them more cuz they don't know you personally

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I like chatting with people online since I'm an introvert IRL, and I have chatted with some cute girls. The frustrating part is that they always live in other countries.

SimplyPut · Answer

I like to flirt online in person and when I'm sleeping in dreams.

12karen · Answer

I do, It's pointless but It's really funny,

Ruenella_ · Answer

Yes, with people whom I have chemistry. Not strangers.

DJB72 · Answer

Anonymity certainly helps. I still suck at it though.

Anonymous · Answer

Not anymore. Too many people take online "flirting" as an opening to make it weird and uncomfortable without accountability.

AmeerX · Answer

Only if it's a love interest:). I found a girl who I fancy so I wrote to her emails and finally send her a samll gift with intention to marry

DreamLife7 · Answer

Only ugly people do this. So it explains why u rather be online but you'll never be married nor have a relationship. Be normal

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I do but I fear the reality that makes the true loneliness when you put the phone down far more real.

Amur8711 · Answer

Yeah it is kinda addictive, practicing and learning. However sadly it hasn't carried over to irl for me because I am not witty enough in person, also I may over think in person.

RingOfFire · Answer

I liked it for many years. Now I find it boring.

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all. I mean I'll ridicule people a lot. And sometimes they think I'm flirting. But I'm not, I'm ridiculing them and they're just not smart enough to realize that.😆

In_Trance · Answer

Go do something else

McKellar · Answer

Yeah,... I do that too. ... but when I suggest on meeting for the 1st time at a location,... nope. They bail out.

rainbowstarsxoxo · Answer

It’s way better online than in person. I hate flirting with people in real life. I suck at it. 😂

Sparkie460 · Answer

Yes I do. I do it all the time on line and in person

Jerre · Answer

After talking with her online, I would probably want to meet her

SunnyRS · Answer

Not good at catching someone flirting with and I am not good at flirting so no I guess

Guanfei · Answer

I do. I do it quite often, it's easier than face to face.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

It can be fun at times, but becomes boring if it has no potential to go anywhere

HouseMoat · Answer

I think that's wrong of you And no, I don't

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