What screams, "I have a crush on you"?

[Anonymous]

how can you tell %100 that a person likes you

[Joshydavid25]

It's different for different people.. The more straight forward people usually smile and look down when you come around.. They might get a little shy and avoid contact, especially when they are around their friends.. But will look at you from far off.. They'll definitely treat you differently than they would everybody else.. Maybe they might try and talk to you more.. If they are braver, glance at you even if you happen to look at them.. If they're really brave or straight forward, they'll compliment you outright, and look at you with a smile many times.

[dynamicyandere]

When their mouth is on your dick. 🍆


Lol, okay serious answer:


Eye contact is a good indicator. Not just any eye contact, but the kind where you can actually see that they’re excited to see you and when you talk to them, they’re 100% engaged. When they don’t just look at you, but their eyes light up for you unlike anyone else they talk to.

[dynamicyandere]

It’s never just one hint though.

You need to stack your hints to be 100% sure. The other commenters are right about if there’s just ONE sign where you can be 100% sure they like you, they just have to tell you themselves.

Otherwise, the most certainty you’ll get is maybe 80% or 90% or 95% or even 99%.

You’ll never be 100% sure unless they confess.

[Monalisa77]

Yeah they didn't really smile at me but they barely turned their head towards the pers6next to them when they started talking. But i dont get how someone can be like this with someone and never want to see them again or make effort

[dynamicyandere]

@Monalisa77 A lot of people form crushes on people, but only some decide to initiate something, for various reasons. But the usual reason is fear of rejection.

[Monalisa77]

Well in my experience i didn't have one on this guy. So i wasn't looking out for anything.

[Monalisa77]

In regards to u thinking crushes only make u see what u want to see, and yep its y i dont do anything

[Monalisa77]

Sorry, im tired and didn't read that right. True, i didn't give him any signs cos it was so random

[Monalisa77]

I was thinking about another q that i had answered, ignore my dirst two replies

[dynamicyandere]

No worries. 🙂

Yeah, when it comes to flirtation, it’s a like a back-and-forth dance, right?

If you don’t show that you’re interested in dancing, if they’re a gentleman, they won’t force you to dance.

You need to let them know you would like to participate sending back positive hints and signals yourself.

If you don’t respond, a self-aware man will take that as, “No thank you.” And they should respect that unspoken boundary.

[Monalisa77]

Yeah but it was a shock to me, i couldnt really understand it and why this bloke would b interested. I mean my cousin whos known him since birth was trying to tell me itvwas just the way he was but when i asked about staring she didn't have a clue

[Monalisa77]

He wasn't making an effort to speak to me, didn't come over to me (although i got he is popular and had people around talking to him at break) but I don't know if it was just awkward

[dynamicyandere]

Perhaps he wanted you to go to him, or perhaps he was going to approach you later. Some people take their time and don’t Ike to rush things. 🤔

[Monalisa77]

Yeh im just too shy

[jennifer_bloom]

If I respond to them in a way that is different from how I respond to other people or if I seem more serious around them than other people, that is a sign I like them. But I've met guys who think I like them cause I smile around them when I just view them as a brother. The other thing is, if I get nervous it's surface attraction. When I actually love a guy, it can't be seen through any signals and looks just like any other relationship so the guy would never know unless I said something.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Try to open your ears. When someone says "She/he's not interested... not even look at me." , and then posts about you online several times. Or when your friends mention their names a lot.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AJR78]

The word crush can have different meanings.

My understanding has always been that a crush in the truest sense means liking someone who you know for sure or are fairly certain, does not and will not feel the same about you.

Of course it's mored typically used colloquially to express an interest in someone where the interest is not platonic.

To answer the question, there are 2 things most blatant and obvious.

Sustained eye contact. (less blinking, less gaze pivots, less capacity to become distracted)

Physical contact. (random touches, random distance closure to eneter your personal space, randomly initiating a hug)

[Altheavas]

Most people here give you good answers. I did all the opposite of everything they said here. When I had a crush, I was about your age. Some people are just mean to their crush; it’s like how dare you, you got me all flustered up!

[ChooChooHaha]

You can just know/ feel it.
Humor, smiles, we can be very natural and less guarded, if at all. They ask you out. You guys flirt, they tell you or at least come close to saying so. They almost kiss you.

[ChooChooHaha]

You hold eye contact and feel like you're exposed/ it's only the 2 of you.

[Olivier-628]

I mean, if she says "I have a crush on you".
It's probably still C, you can't really tell even if she married you. She might just like the ring or be Canadian or something like that.

[BoopBoopBeep]

The person in the bushes every night about 1am right after "your eyelashes are like butterflies when you sleep."

I wish she'd go home...

[Nik1hil]

If they are speaking in any language of Love!

- Touching you.
- Spending time with you.
- Words of compassion and compliment.
- Gifts for you.
- Act of Service towards you.

[Anonymous]

the level of likes not a straight line nor same amount...

it have ups and down... after a down understanding opposite gender is solving huge problem... quickly wanna talk about it before going bed at home inside bedroom

(for a man) as a man always ask for apologies and say sorry to your loved ones be first to ask and keep looking her eyes.. maintain see her face without saying anything to her ( give nod & yes)

[On_cloud_wine]

He walks up to me and says “I like you.”

when he looks into my eyes, then my lips, then back at my eyes again and it kinda lingers

[KittygosMeoWW]

They go out of their way to dedicate time to you is the most basic one. If you’ve known them for over a month and they haven’t specifically asked you out they’re not serious about any flirty vibes you get.

[laly520]

making time for u, showing care, listening good each time while being interested

[Phoenix98]

It's different for different people but usually the look in their eyes, body language, how touchy, feely they are stuff like that.

[IslaTheWitch]

When he pays attention to small details. People not interested in you don't do that

[LiamJHayden]

She comes over, sits on my lap, and tell me.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

You ignore them reject them tream them bad

They still flirt with you

[Clyde_123]

If he makes time for you, does everything to make you happy, talk to you all the time.

[Anonymous]

I'm oblivious to signs so I'm my 2 relationships I didn't click until I was kissed by one and woke up to head by the other

[sheikalana]

When they're constantly checking on you.

[Tharithi]

If he asks about marriage with me

[Grond21]

When they scream, "I have a crush on you."

[Pohjolan]

She lets you eat yogurt off her breasts.

[Pterodon]

When they say it

[Anonymous]

Crushes are for teenagers. Ask them.

[boggboss]

When they tell you

[Anonymous]

A crazy person with a crush on you

[In_Trance]

Ask them