If a guy likes you why is he sometimes not interested in what you have to say?

[Anonymous]

Can this be the case? Or is this just an obvious sign that he doesn’t actually like you, despite flirting, so may just be more lust and sexual rather than anything else?

[fafylone]

Aren't people looking for sexual relationship? Many relationships starts with lust and ends after few days/months of sex. Listen to your instinct & move on.

[Asker]

I’m looking to answers to this actual question. No, most people are looking for relationships at my age.

[Asker]

My gut is unsure, hence the point of the question. But thanks anyway.

[fafylone]

I said move on. Mix signals is still a sign. He is playing mind game with you. He maybe dealing with someone else too.

[Asker]

It’s possible but I think there could be more to it than that too. I’m here to explore those options.

[Pohjolan]

Might be a boring topic or may have a bad day.

[Asker]

If it’s boring we probably don’t have enough in common. I like to be challenged intellectually.

[Asker]

It makes me think it’s more lust and physical for him, which is not what I’m looking for.