What do you do when you see someone attractive in the gym?

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I have always only looked, and if the girl looks me way I either lock eyes or just scan around naturally.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

when young I'd run away because I had issues with intimacy and my own deep fears and shame. So my solution made sense... see someone attractive... run... I don't want the risk of anything.

as got older and healed, I'd talk to almost anyone as I was more outgoing in a "normal" way, social... true in most settings. Most people are reasonable, not stupid, but also don't want to feel uncomfortable. But... people do like to be acknowledged and regraded regardless of male/female. So it's not what you do or say, it's how you do it and come across. It's good to have people to say hello to that acknowledge you and I try to build that. I know the leader at my grocery store and the janitor (males). I never had a date from a gym, but had opportunities I chose not to take from bike club. You put yourself in a position to make the best choices you can, rather than live in fear... that's what I'm saying.

I do the same for everyone unless I don't want to talk to them, I see most people as the same, some are more attractive or interesting than others.

I honor my wife, and I no longer go to the gym for various reasons... like I'd rather be outside in the fresh air. I stay away from connecting too much with women, that's not appropriate.

There are ways of changing how one thinks so that problems you have are converted and perceived differently and turned to opportunities.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I don’t really do much of anything. It’s not because I’m “scared” of anything. I just do my best to mind my own in public and approaching women I don’t really know isn’t my style. I like to sort of get to know someone first. If I really want to talk to someone I will or if they talk to me I do my best to be friendly

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Look up and down smirking until we lock eyes. But i haven't been to the gym in a few months. I got hella nervous when one guy leaned against the equipment i was exercising on and his two buds came over and they were just standing there staring down at me. I closed my eyes and wished they weren't there when i opened em 🤣 Hotness overload

Laciejordan · Accepted Answer

I find a mirror and make sure my hair looks nice and maybe wipe some sweat off. I will smile at them if we make eye contact more than once, I wanna let him know I’m not a bitch. Lol

HawkPerception · Answer

Honestly I do most of my workouts at home and the only times I've been to gyms is when a friend invites me. Out of the very few times I've been to the gym I've only complimented a girl I found attractive once and she just said thank you.

I've heard some horror stories (only online) about guys who get sexual harassment suits against them and honestly it does dissuade me from attempting to approach any attractive girls at the gym. I guess I was lucky that one time I did, there weren't any claims.

Viola_456 · Answer

I make sure i look good and if there's an opportunity i talk to him. But most guys just stare and them are afraid to talk to me and look away when i notice them 😂

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'll look and just think "oh wow they're attractive"  That's pretty much it

ManOnFire · Answer

Casually take looks at them if I'm nearby, or look at them through the mirror. Although if they are particularly hot to me I will wait until they look at me to look right back. I did this with an older woman about a week ago. Man, she was hot as fuck. She kept looking at me and so I kept looking back. Unfortunately didn't have the time to try to get closer though.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Just take a few glimpses, appreciating that they're attractive. And maybe text my friend about it.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I'll stars at them a little and carry on with my day. I don't go gym, rarely do I ever walk past a window gym with all the treadmills or front entrance glass huge glass everywhere. That's the thing about gyms: they insist on huge glass facades. Go figure right, shrugs 🫣

ImAlly · Answer

I try to look at the guy and let him know I'm interested.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I don't really look around much as there's been guys that have been ousted from the gym due them eye-ballin for to long and creeping some girls out. I tend to go in, workout and then hit the road.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I smiled and nodded at them. After a couple of times and seeing some mutual returns, went up asked their name and what workout they were doing at the end of one of their sets. Worked pretty well.

Anonymous · Answer

I drink up the sight and enjoy it. I'm there to work out, but happy to enjoy the eye candy along the way. My current gym has a few girls with VERY nice asses that they display well. There aren't as many girls with great boobs, but there are a couple every now and then.

verylovelyguy · Answer

go to the machine where i can conveniently watch her from. press the button on my sex toy under my pants to turn it on. keep staring at her as i'm working out. keep staring at her and keep working out as i am cumming from the toy

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Nothing. Too many toxic tiktok "content creators" out there trying to trend. If she likes me she can come talk to me.

MrNameless · Answer

I usually look away. I don't make direct eye contact with them if I pass by them. They're usually on headphones anyway. Unless they are close by and I asked them something.

Apple1996 · Answer

I look away

CozyCoffin · Answer

When I went to the gym, I'd do what I do outside of the gym, scan their body for a few seconds and get back to what I was doing. No need to do anything else.

Anonymous · Answer

yeah mostly just look , my gym isn't really full of hot women anyways , you see the odd one but its not really packed this time of year

Hannajenky · Answer

I don’t usually work out in a gym setting but when I do it’s not a big deal to see hot guys

SotiCoto · Answer

Ignore them, because I'm outside the gym and want nothing to do with anything going on in there.

Dargil · Answer

Enjoy the view with sidelong glances and no staring.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I try to focus on my workout but I have gotten a boner at times

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nothing. I'm there to workout not socialize.

Nice222 · Answer

I just continue my work out. I’m not there to look for a relationship or hooked up.

Pohjolan · Answer

The gym I go to has plenty of attractive people. Not a big deal.

NathanDavis · Answer

I show off my elbows...

robocop666 · Answer

If they lock eyes thats an invitation. A few hotties have done that with me.

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Answer

Guessing their age and marital status.

Paris13 · Answer

Not a Place I am Into A Pick Up. lolxxoo

stark04 · Answer

Say hello and they always talk back.

exitseven · Answer

I check them out in stealth mode.

stratford · Answer

Try not to stare like a horny teenager.

TheSpider · Answer

Gawk. and masturbate furiously. #sarcasm

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I look 👀

Anonymous · Answer

I try not to look at women at the gym.

MaterialisticMember · Answer

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