What Does This Girl Feel?

[Anonymous]

I opened my feelings to her but she said that she sees me as a friend and we stopped communicating. After some days, she started to ask about whether or not she has feelings for me. She asked a question (actually hidden question but I have good understanding of catching questions) that contains information about she is impressed by my intelligence, intellectual abilities, humor, goodness and flirting skills but she has little concerns about my look and she wants to be sure about her feelings to guarantee that she won't hurt my feelings. She also said that she feels happy and secure with me. What does her feelings mean for me?

[bobalife]

Give her time to figure it out, only she will know. But it sounds like she might be attracted to you and just not sure yet if it means romantic feelings since you started out as friends. Be patient :)

[Sorobor]

• Well i can't guess. You're guessing yourself over information you didn't disclose. But the fact that she said no at first is already a red flag. Do not put energy in girls playing games. She's going to guilt trip you into unpleasant moments and you'll feel obliged to her up until the breakup where you'll realise what the hell you actually did.