Sigh, I’ve been friends with a woman I met at a bar (she’s the manager) and I came in quite a few times for dinner. Long story short we exchanged numbers after chatting at the restaurant a few times. We went out for dinner a few times and I mention that I was a lesbian (she never said if she was or anywhere in between). The only thing is that I’m 29 and she’s 47. So sometimes she gives off signals that she’s interested, other times i get nothing. Very hot and cold, I don't know.
Fast forward - two days ago she invited me to her place for dinner where she made dinner for us. She was being really playful with me the entire time and she even gave me her sweater to wear since it was a little chilly…. she was being really playful and kept giving me “the look”. I don't know. Before I left she gave me a long hug and said that I should keep the bottle of wine I brought with me at her place for next time. So I did. Am I over thinking this? Sometimes I feel like she’s into me other times, it’s radio silence.
Fast forward - two days ago she invited me to her place for dinner where she made dinner for us. She was being really playful with me the entire time and she even gave me her sweater to wear since it was a little chilly…. she was being really playful and kept giving me “the look”. I don't know. Before I left she gave me a long hug and said that I should keep the bottle of wine I brought with me at her place for next time. So I did. Am I over thinking this? Sometimes I feel like she’s into me other times, it’s radio silence.
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I would say something if it was me.
Like what? She speaks a lot of how much having peace is a priority for her. Which I get it. But sometimes when we text she is pretty short and when I see her in our son she is the total opposite.