Guys, Do boys like it when girls text first? Or does that seem obsessive?

[bellarolewicz]

[TheSpaceGnome]

Men want a woman who obsesses over them (and over the same hobbies and interests as them).

I will never understand why so many gen z people frown on being openly passionate about anything.

Acting stoic is just retarded.

Unleash the joy.

[Lionman95]

No it´s not obsessive if you text first. It could sometimes be helpful to get a conversation going. It would get obsessive or needy if you start right way to talk about feelings and a relationship and if you text multiple messages at a time without being able to respond.

[NamerOfStars]

Sending a message or two to start the conversation is fine; that shows interest. Sending six hundred messages before he responds isn't fine; that shows obsession.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Yes for me: big bonus points if the woman texts me after the date before I get the chance to text her.

[Joshydavid25]

I think anybody likes it when you show interest in them in some way.. Which texting first does..

[SotiCoto]

Yes. Also No.

Explanation: They're different boys. Y'know. Because people with penises aren't a unilateral monolith.

[JayBones]

I don't care if she texts forst. I'm aggressive so I'm not sure that's ever happened. If she doesn't respond that's the last text I send her though.

[echoaj]

We definitely like it. It's the same feeling for you girls when a guy texts first.

[pickles77]

For sure. It doesn’t have to be every time but it does get old when your the only one who reaches out.

[handsomelad70]

Because of my age, I'd LOVE it if a chick texted first.

[Bobby88t]

I like it when the has the power maybe vecause im a but shy

[HouseMoat]

It's generally seen as being pushy, but, this is the 21st century, fuck rules, right?

[Pozidon]

Yes we like it , it shows that you genuinely care and not just here for timepass. Also no it doesn't seem obsessive.

[Kaneki05]

Of course I like it.

[Iron_Man]

I like it shows they care

[TallAnon]

Always nice to see effort at all, honestly

[moneymagnet24]

What have to like in that?

[Danny_dan92]

Just don’t be clingy

[dudeinohio]

It's a good thing.

[Fuentes]

I like it lol