Have you ever approached a stranger in public and asked for their number?

[Pinay_ako]

Have you ever been approached by a stranger who asked for your number/insta, etc? Because they think you’re attractive/vice versa?

What was the result?

[DrPepper12]

Friend in college walked up to wom n and said wanna fuck later? He was rarely alone by 4:00 AM closing time.

[Pinay_ako]

Damn.. straight to the point

[DrPepper12]

We were amazed at his success rate. He got the shit kicked out of him by boyfriend occasionally and was punched, slapped or wearing a drink too but going out with him was a guaranteed good time. I miss those days...🥰😁🤪

[Asb_Samson]

I never asked and feels like I will have answered negatively, further may be feels as Harassment to others.

[Apple1996]

Many times when I was younger. And I've only had guys start approaching me recently in the past 2 years or so

[Avicenna]

When I was younger, this wasn't considered some great feat of audacity like it apparently is now.

[Kingofkings1992]

Right? I don’t understand why some people act like it’s so bold.

[Passerby2]

@Kingofkings1992 because the women on their phones. Talking to someone is like annoying them

[NathanDavis]

approached by, yes... many times

asked for my number though? only a few times... this because they find themselves intrigued or interested, sure

socials, I do not have them... my phone number I rarely give it, if they're intrigued or interested, we do sort it there and agree to meet sometime, somewhere... and we've done a few times this way

that's how it went with my last two relationships... no phone numbers, no socials, no email... if truly interested, let's meet here and then, and it went very well, lol

[Princesspd]

One time I traveled for a work conference and was staying at the hotel by myself. I saw a handsome guy sitting alone in our hotel bar. The moment I saw him I knew I want to have sex with him. I approached him and we initiated a conversation. At the end of the night, I took him to my hotel room and we had sex all night.

[BadApple69]

I was approached by a girl once and she asked if I wanted to have sex with her...
I was stunned and didn't say anything... She walked away and I stood there with my mouth wide open. She was pretty and I would have loved having sex with her. By the time I could think again she was gone into the crowd. To me... It was bizarre... And only happened that one time. wherever that girl is today I wish to say to her only one thing...


YES!! YES YES YES YES!!!

[IslaTheWitch]

Even if I approached a stranger, I would never ask for their number.

I'm approached from time to time, especially at conferences, and people often ask for my contact data. But the only contact I can offer is my email address. If I make a presentation, I always include my email address. I know people start to have many questions a few days after the conference. Most men who asked for contact data never write me, maybe email looks intimidating? :D

I wouldn't give my number to someone I don't know.

[PeachyPie93]

No I never approached anyone and asked for their number.
Only once did anyone ask for my number it was a guy I knew in high school. He would talk to me every time he would come to the mall I worked at, he gave me his number first, I never called him so because he knew I was shy he asked for mine lol. We went on one coffee date and then because I changed my mind about going to his house afterwards to watch movies, he never talked to me again 😂😂

[Unit1]

Smart. That's one way to vet out the sex diggers.

[PeachyPie93]

@Unit1 Yeah I didn't have a car and I got off work at 9pm so if we went for movies after coffee I wouldn't have been able to get home since it would probably be after midnight, so I decided its best not to go with him lol.

[Dinklex3]

As a teen we did it, but we mostly talked to them and got their MySpace. I didn’t get my first cell phone until I was 15.

Only 1 guy I approached ended up being my boyfriend, the others just became friends.

As an adult, I’ve been approached by strangers but never approach strangers on my own. In my early 20s I used to give it out because I didn’t know how to say no. When I turned 24 I learned how to say no and be stubborn about it.

[dolemite58]

Yes I have, tbh I wouldn’t trust an attractive girl that would initiate a conversation with me in public like that. Id assume she was a prostitute or leading somewhere to get robbed.

[dolemite58]

*me somewhere

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 why you gotta be so negative all the time? Can’t a woman just come up to you and ask hey baby what’s your # so we can get together 😂

[dolemite58]

A girl that I’ve met previously sure but a total stranger? Come on, pretty girls don’t hit on guys they get hit on.

[Cloeeeeeeeeee]

I approach hot strangers to interact and possibly ask for their numbers. Life is too short to let that just pass by 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

[dolemite58]

@Cloeeeeeeeeee life is too short to get robbed too 😂

[Jennz6]

@dolemite58 yep!

[AlienDummy28]

I see attractive people when I was young but I don't have that confidence to come to them and ask for their numbers (*Instead I wish they would approach me and ask for mine). The result is nothing. I just got to see their face. After that, nothing changed. Now I forgot what they looked like : ]

[Cloeeeeeeeeee]

Usually I make it known that they're welcome to approach me with a clear smile and a wave 👋🏻 or I'll say hi when passing by them and turn around smiling 😂

Sometimes they don't really know what to do but most of the time they realise shortly after and come ask themselves.

I've approached the shy ones cause if you don't stop looking at me but can't come and ask me then I'll do us the favour 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

[DryGermanGuy]

A complete stranger, no. But strangers I have seen several times in the same place and who have seen me (e. g. a bar or club). And I don't ask for numbers, if I feel it, I give mine. :-)

[libsaretards]

Had a girl walk up to me, hand me her number and said "I'm free today after 7" then walked away. She appeared confident, but when she thought I was no longer in ear shot, she told her friends "Wow! Can't believe I did that. He is cute though.

[Nikki1989]

I have been approached and asked that question dozens of times, and it still happens to this day, despite being married.

[Unit1]

It happened exactly zero times to me. Quite not the achievement, considering i am part of the legion of guys, that girls have zero interest in. Or we are invisible.

[Overandunder89]

Yes, I've approached, but have never been approached. It seems that either women don't do that sort of thing or I'm just not worthy of that kind of attention. My success rate: 50/50

[elizamichale1]

Soooo many times i hav been asked for my number

[bobby_bush_eater]

I only have at bars/clubs, or in school, and at work. Never completely out in public, always in some type of "controlled" setting like I described

[Peridot25]

Actually, it was the other way around. And it always happened at my job. I honestly was uncomfortable because the guys who asked didn’t have good intentions.

[Darkest-Knight]

I've never approached someone. I don't like the word "no". I've never been approached basically because I'm a loser.

[Tyler2]

Losers are people that commit crimes, generally an ass, cause unnecessary trouble, and pick on others, are you sure you are a loser?