Girls, Is this considered flirting?

[Anonymous]

I’m on my college baseball team and one of my female classmates who I’m pretty good friends with came to my game.

after the game, she texted me “I noticed you adjusting your cup quite a bit, nice bulge ;)”

[DishLady]

The wink is usually a dead ringer in case you didn’t read the actual text…

[Asker]

Do you thihk she finds is weird i was adjusting my cup?

[DishLady]

I couldn’t tell you. I think it’s weird she was obsessed with looking at your cup…

[Asker]

Do women understand why guys wear cups? I dont want her to think im a wimp

[DishLady]

Yeah — my generation did anyhow bc it was made fun of a million times in campy movies of the time. I couldn’t tell you what ALL WOMEN currently know…

[Asker]

How was it made fun of?

I dont want her to think my man parts are weak

[TheDaydreamer]

she wants you and also it's not weird all guys weird it for games

[Asker]

But won't she think my junk is weak?

[Kaylei2006]

Omg, well sometimes I have to hit them with a baseball bat to realize it, soooo, I don't know

[MadinaHasABensheer]

Oh my god. I want to see it too.

[Asker]

What do you mean? Do girls think its weird when guys wear cups?

[dustybiker2]

I know nobody who would say this.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s very flirty lol

[Asker]

But does it look weird that im wesring a cup

[WhitneySnow]

No. Not weird at all.

[Asker]

I dont want her to think im scared of the ball

[WhitneySnow]

Don’t baseball players always wear cups? I’m sure she knows you’re not scared of the ball.

[Asker]

Some do, some dont.

Does it make me look like my balls are weak?

[WhitneySnow]

No. She thinks you’re cute. That’s why she flirted with you.

[Asker]

But would it make you think his balls are weak?

[WhitneySnow]

No! It would not

[WhitneySnow]

She won’t care if your balls are weak. It won’t even occur to her to think like that. That’s a guy thing.

[Akam93]

Yeah sexual flirting.

[Asker]

Does it make me look bad that I wear a cup? I don’t want her to think I’m not tough

[Akam93]

It's baseball would you rather get hit in the dick with a baseball? I'm sure it's painful. I don't think she cares about that unless she understands how you can get hit in that general area.

[Asker]

Haha no ouch! But what about the bulge it created in my pants

[Akam93]

Makes it look sexier. Lol

[Asker]

Really why?

[Akam93]

Just the way it looks I guess. Lol

[Asker]

Do girls understsnd why guys wear cups?

[Akam93]

I'm sure they do unless they don't understand sports.

[Asker]

But dont girls like manly and tough guys? Does the cup make me look scared?

[Akam93]

Ok wearing something in a sport so you don't get injured is not unmanly. It can cause serious harm to your body down there if it gets hit. You have to try to understand that somehow.

[Asker]

Yeah I agree with it’s also our manliest part