Girls, Is this awkward?

[Anonymous]

I like a girl in my grade and I wanted to tell her that on the last day of school (I switch schools) We have sometimes contact and she also flirted back sometimes, so it wouldn’t be random if I would tell her. Like my question is, would it be awkward if I would ask her if we could meet in the street next to the school when it’s finished and tell her? + give her some flowers (not roses)

[SueShe]

If you have a crush on this girl, why wait till the last minute to tell her? Now that you are leaving school, she will probably forget you just as quickly as you will forget her once you no longer see her.

I personally would indeed find it awkward if a guy gives me flowers on the street and risk to be seen by other students. You may risk to put her in an uncomfortable situation that way. It is quite a strong message you are sending by giving flowers and knowing that you are probably not going to see her again.

You can tell her but giving her flowers is probably superfluous. There is no need to make that kind of investment now. You should have made your move before you changed school.

[Asker]

Thank you :D

[_Maya_]

You are asking us to tell you yes or no and apply that to every girl. The truth of the matter is it depends on the girl, are there other people around, is she shy, etc. You can't just apply a general rule to every sitaution. She might be floored and overjoyed you got her flowers and think it is the most romantic gesture she has every experienced. She also might be embarrassed as hell because everyone is watching and you caught her completely off guard. Which girl is she? No one knows until you do it. So that is what is called a risk. It may pay off it might not. Is it worth the risk is what you have to ask yourself.

[Asker]

It’s a street where no people could watch us

[_Maya_]

Still doesn't matter. She could still be embarrassed because she doesn't know how to respond for example. There is always a degree in actions we take as people.

[Asker]

Right, but she’s actually pretty open

[Nikki1989]

I always say, who dares wins.