Is enjoying text flirting weird?

[Anonymous]

I miss text flirting. Just generally texting with a guy maybe a little dirty but just flirting. Not sex pics, not hook ups, just texting. Is it growing up? Why isn't this a thing anymore? Can't we just flirt and talk without dick pics or random hook ups? Am I crazy? Does anyone else miss this?

Absolutely bring back text flirting

If we're not getting down why are we texting about it?

Texting? No, it's all about the pics

[RespectfulGuy]

I always do it.

Sexting or text flirting is a form of "foreplay". It's healthy and keeps us creative. It is also a form of discussion on how we're going to fuck when we finally meet later in the day.

Sometimes, we can't meet physically. Hence meet in cyber space is the next best thing.

Pic and videos could be abused. But text can't. And text can get into details that surpass pics.

It's fun and it's one of my favorite past time.

[ProbablyClueless]

I absolutely hate text flirting; too much opportunity for things to go sideways. If the flirting isn't going anywhere real, it's a waste of everyone's time.

[Asker]

Obviously I don't agree with but it's an interesting take on it. What do you mean by opportunity for things to go sideways? Like misunderstandings?

[ProbablyClueless]

Misunderstandings definitely happen. But I more meant that the woman just wastes your time a lot. She'll text flirt to get her rocks off and then leave you hanging like a complete asshole.

I don't know who convinced women that men "love the chase" but we absolutely don't. It's impossibly annoying and it makes romance more trouble than it's worth.

[Asker]

Ah, I get it now. You text flirt for hookups. Text flirting is definitely not for you LOL

[ProbablyClueless]

Interestingly, no. I'm not a hook up guy at all.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Not weird. It's still a thing, especially in long distance relationships. Sexting also.. Keeps the conversation exciting until you can meet each other again.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Lol I'd rather flirt with a guy I know in person.

[Asker]

Do you mean you'd rather text flirt with someone you know or that you would rather flirt in person and not text flirt?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

In person and texting but in person is better but only with a guy I know.

[Mythical1]

OMG! I love it when a guy text flirts.

[In_Trance]

When you do the real thing, text flirting is lame

[Asker]

I don't know, coz I'm a big fan of the real thing and yet text flirting still hits different. Guess I'm weird then :D

[Anonymous]

Not bad