How do you flirt? What is really the purpose of it?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

What's the PURPOSE of flirting? You can look up a self-help how to get a guy type book easily enough to find out. You're old enough to understand the purpose...

I like selective and organic flirting. Meaning (1) i don't strut around flirting with everyone and (2) I don't overthink what I'm going to say or do to get a guy's attention. If a guy who is worth my time and attention approaches me... and I feel there's some possible chemistry... a natural conversation kicks up and I presume there's some organic flirtation on both sides, which is a compatibility test of sorts.

[Danny_dan92]

Compliment, and be witty.




The purpose is to get the person to come to the conclusion that you want to fuck and that they agree

[Luckycharms12]

To let someone know you are interested be main purpose of it.

[Asker]

Would it be because you’re genuinely interested in them or just to make you feel good about yourself if they reciprocate?

[Luckycharms12]

Some people often flirt naturally. others because they are generally interested

[Asker]

How can the victim tell the difference?

[Luckycharms12]

Trust yourself

[Luckycharms12]

But none of us ever truly know

[Anonymous]

Just make the other person laugh and notice you.