So there's this girl at work that i see often and we have echange looks a gew times. What would be the best to start a conversation without making it awkward
Whats the best way to approach somone familiar for the first time?
Absolutely, if you haven’t met yet introduce yourself and just mention something along the lines of how you see her often but never really got a chance to talk to her being so busy around here. Then express that you like X Y Z about her make the complement genuine, she will probably feel that differently as opposed to a generic one that’s questionable if it’s even true.
Okay, then just see if she’s open to a coffee date. A coffee date is a good first date for getting to know one another. It’s not awkward to dip if things aren’t working out or you can talk for hours. It’s really just first talking yo someone.
It’s better to be direct early on them waiting around too long until she finds someone else and then that ship has basically sailed by that point. Don’t expect someone to approach especially in a more risky situation they may just think it’s not worth the risk and start to move on.
The fear of rejection is real. I would say there’s a chance she likes you though I don’t know what the looks are.
If she rejects you either because she’s not interested or maybe she fancies you but doesn’t want to pursue it due to the situation. Then you have closure to move on and don’t have to wonder what it could have been. At the same time, you aren’t wasting time on someone who you can’t be witn anyways
As for sexual harassment. If you’re not saying or doing something sexual then you’re good. If she rejects you gracefully thank her for being honest and tell her you look forward to building a professional relationship with her.
If she’s a bitch then you dodged a bullet and she did yoh a favor. Doubt she will. Things will probably be fine if you’re direct respectfully.
The question is always: What are your motives for you wanting to approach that girl?
Is your ultimate motive to eventually get into her pants or are you simply wanting to be friendly with her and without anything else than to build up a platonic coworker relationship?
If it is solely for the 2nd. reason, then you can just talk about work without going into personal details which are not relevant to that kind of approach. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone you are not. You seem to be on the shy side otherwise you would not have asked this question.
If on the other hand, your ultimate goal is to get into her pants, then make it clear to her that this is your intention and don't make her believe that you have no other interests in talking to her. Good luck.
There is a third explanation. He might like her romantically, which means he probably does want to get into her pants but also feels warm and fuzzy toward her and hopefully wants to date her with the intention that they will eventually become a couple and grow to be best friends. But definitely not platonic.
Sorry lol. That was kind of long winded. But I wanted to cover every possibility inherent in the idea that he might have romantic feelings for her.
@WhitneySnow Thanks for your update. That is basically what I understand by "getting in her pants".
In today's world, long term relationships (20+ years) are practically non existent anymore and the final aim, even if it is to be romantic with her, will eventually end in a few months, hence getting into her pants.
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