How do you interact with someone that you first met?

[WilliamPamer446]

what are the things you do and the things you dont

what advice would you give me and for specific environments

what are things to think about

and things to not think about and things to not have anxiety over

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also the environments i know that ENVIRONMENT specific because different environments can carry there own benefits and also challenges

[Nikki1989]

I treat everyone the same. Why change behaviours for a stranger.

[WilliamPamer446]

i dont know what you mean like i feal like i should be myself i wanna talk about the same things but like people get mad and stuff and say like people are being weird or this doesn't work in this situation or something like that or this or that is inapropiate so like i just wanted to see other peoples opinions and see if that would help me out at all

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I always take my time to meeting them and never rush into things.

[Anonymous]

I focus on lots of small talks, and try to avoid silent moments.

[WilliamPamer446]

Well ok u do small talk, not my cup of tea i dont really do small talk

whats ur idea of small talk

what topics end up coming up in small talk

do u small talk the whole time or just to get the ball rolling

[Opinion Owner]

Talk about things you both have an interest in. Ask her what she likes and what her hobbies are.

[WilliamPamer446]

i dont do :robotic " or austere talk i like a nautral flow and telling them ur personality and talking about music and hobby and talking about cool stuff and havin fun together talking about deep subjects

when i first meet someone i begin in a way tahts not to strong but i also wanna be myself and not have dumb shallow convo

i read the room and everything

i think u wanna be funny or tell something about urself that isn't too personal as well or something and talk about similar interest and ask her what u like to do

i have autism and adhd and i feel like i think I've been giving a boring "austere" version of small talk and thats "partly" why i have a negative view of it. i ask this question to get different peoples views of it and get naunces of things and thought that that might help me.

[WilliamPamer446]

i dont think there's a one size fits all approach to socialization,