Girl from my run club asked if I go to the same gym she does, is she interested\?

[ikonik]

Last night a girl from my run club asked me if i go to the same gym she does. the rest of the night we were talking off and on about gym stuff. some of those times she came up to me to talk. were restuarant hopping and at one restuarant they had a skeleton dressed up. she was approaching me and i motioned her to come check it out, she ended up standing right in front of me. later we went to another restuarant that had a dance floor, i asked if she could dance. iniitally she didn't join because her feet were tired, but she did later. is she interested?

[BetaBucks]

Indications of interest =/= interested in you. But the more indications of interest, the more likely. You got two indications. Asking about the gym, and carrying conversation with you. Learn to pay attention to body language too. You don't have to wait til you have 10 indications and are 100% sure before you shoot your shot. Two is good enough, in my opinion.

[ikonik]

so i asked her then she said she even saw another guy there sometimes, which i thought was weird but he is married so i'm not really worried about that. she also said her schedule is all over the place and she just goes when she has a free day which she finds out the day before. she basically said she'll let me know when she's able to go. my friend thought this is a soft rejection.

[BetaBucks]

It could also be her way of connecting with you without the formality. it's only a rejection if you outright asked her out and she responded lukewarm. Ball's in her court now though, so just be casual until she pulls the trigger.

[ikonik]

do i follow up?

[BetaBucks]

No, just keep talking to her and being as aloof and funny as you can be.

[LiamJHayden]

Just ask her out. She is probably interested, but she could also just feel more comfortable around a familiar face.

[ikonik]

everyone there was a friend, there were no new faces

[DrPepper12]

Yes!!! 👍🏻