How can I make a good impression on girls I want to meet?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I am studying abroad. I am rather shy when it comes to meeting girls and starting conversations. How can I start a conversation with a girl I want to meet, create a good impression and get closer (in places like cafes, bars, nightclubs)?

[nolabels]

You don't say if you're generally shy, but I'll assume that it is so.

My advice is to work on general shyness first, if needed, simply by pushing yourself SLIGHTLY out of your comfort zone on a regular basis.
Your comfort zone will grow in the process.
Keep pushing the edge of that expanding zone.
If you're shy mainly around women, focus on practicing in non-pressure situations.
Engage with people more often and openly as a matter of normal daily life.

As a good friend of mine likes to say as a way of making situations feel less serious to oneself, "What are they gonna do, take away your birthday?"

In my case, when I was a much younger man, I was determined to overcome my shyness and used that technique.
It took close to a year before I realized that I was no longer shy.
It was well worth extending the effort in my doing so.

Once the shyness is overcome, the rest will come more easily.

Good luck to you.

Cheers!

[Avicenna]

Be confident but friendly and respectful. Don’t get daunted if they are not interested- someone will be.

[SweetPi]

Well first those are very different places and second learn Thier language!

[strateguy632]

Buy good fitting clothing with extra luxury collar suit etc.

[ProbablyClueless]

Learn their language, smile, don't be pushy.

Most women are extremely forgiving once you've earned a enough cute points.

[Cheerfull009]

You keep your velet full of money , wear expensive clothes, spend money on friends on resturents on food , buy costly gift, then girls will see you and run after you

[Anonymous]

Throw her the money 💰