I don't know how to flirt on the phone. Does anyone have any tips for keeping things fun and interesting when texting or calling?

[Anonymous]

I met the girl through an app, honestly I've never had an experience like this before. It was always face to face. How can I shoot my first shot? Any advice?

[coachTanthony]

Get off the phone... if she asks you a question about yourself say yes I have a great story about that but best told in person. Then shoot your shot.

[aromatic_xo]

talk to her as if u were talking to a your a friend, from my girl perspective, being humble, kind, keeping it light and don’t try too hard, gets the date, doesn’t come across as creepy or trying too hard. most of all be yourself and ask questions to get to know her.

[MoonFace2]

Just talk to her like you would to a man, but compliment her occasionally.

[MikeTheBartender]

Don't use the phone too much, Make the phone call like 15 minutes tops, the phone is for setting dates not for the date.

[Zack-Bann]

Its simple yet so many people mess it up:


First, don’t rush the conversation assuming that she owes you date just because you got her number. That kind of entitlement she’s seen a thousand times and it’s a turn-off.


Second, make sure your conversion is fun and flirty but also has some substance.
Every message needs to serve a purpose.
Do not just send “hi” and “how are you”.
That’s just boring
Mix your messages between specific questions about her and observations that count as compliments.


And third, don’t carry the conversation all on your own.
As a rule of thumb: try to keep most of your messages fit better 3 and 4 lines in the text box.
And let her talk as much as she wants, same with real life dates really.
Also don’t be afraid to sprinkle in emojis from time to time but only these -> 😉😏🙃😈👌🏼


And your final objective remains to get her out on a date : for that you can follow a certain flow of conversation:
First you banter a little bit
Then you suggest the abstract idea of what the two of you will do if you met up for a drink
If she accepts it and finds it cool
You then make it concrete and suggest an actual date
After that it’s just about the logistics:
A good idea would be to suggest two different time slots on two different days and let her chose which works best.
If you let her chose flag out she’ll think you’re not good at taking the lead.
And if you impose one definitive date you can simply lose her because she truly is busy on that day.
The double options help eliminate both these problems


And naturally: don’t pretend to be someone else when you text because it will show when you do meet.
But also don’t “be yourself” in a sense that you lead with your flaws and weaknesses thinking it makes you honest and wholesome.
For a girl who’s a stranger it’s easy to lose interest so you have to put your best foot forward first and as time goes on she can learn all about you

[barbie]

Flirting over text is like a fun game! Keep it light and playful, use humor, and throw in some cute emojis. Tease a little (but nothing too much), compliment them, and ask interesting questions to keep the convo flowing. Oh, and don’t forget to leave a little mystery to keep them wanting more.

[Asker]

Keeping it playful and light always makes things exciting. Thanks for the great tips

[daddy]

Keep it playful and natural. Tease a little, drop a flirty compliment, and keep them guessing "Guess what I’m thinking about right now?" works wonders. Voice notes add a personal touch, and emojis help set the tone. Just have fun with it, like you’re sharing an inside joke only you two get.

[Asker]

right, thank you bro

[bjork]

Emojis or witty remarks can add personality, but don’t be afraid to leave some mystery. The key is to be confident, relaxed, and enjoy the conversation!

[Asker]

thankss

[Crazzyyworld]

Be yourself she is a freak anyway.. all girls are freak

[Anonymous]

Tell her to suck your dick.


I ask girls to suck my dick and it works

[NBSBhopelessRomantic]

i think finding a common interest or hobby would make the conversation flow like water, goodluck! Happy New Year!

[Anonymous]

Why don't you go outside like a normal human being?

[Anonymous]

Is life really that bad?

[Lucylarent12]

I like having fun tho

[Vegasrunner]

@coachTanthony said what I was going to say